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Not to long ago, my guy friend hits me up on this video call called ooVoo. So like we are having a good conversation and everything like we always to. Then, he started making sexual jokes. Like they were funny cuz I'm the type of person who laughs at all most everything. I made this one dis and he wants to say 'U know you want this'. I said excuse me like playfully. He say 'Aw come on. you know you want me.' I kept denying it cuz I didn't. The last words he said was "Think about it?" I thought he was joking, but he put his serious face on then left the conversation. Now he has me thinking do I want him or am I just denying my feelings. I will admit he is cute, but he wasn't the one I was expecting to start liking. Then, I think to myself saying that he is joking. Which one is it guys? Girls can comment too. I am just confused on this whole thing right now.

Basically i have been in a serious committed and sexual relationship with my boyfriend, for nearly five years, i love him dearly and i know he feels the same, the only problem is recently he has started to like, favourite a lot of girls photos, he also recently downloaded the app Hot or Not. I completely trust him and i know he wouldn't cheat on me, but i think that liking other girls pictures is a piss take and its hurts me like a lot. People i have spoke to about this say it isn't acceptable and when i confront him he says he just likes the picture and nothing more, i know it is that and i 100% know it's nothing more. This isn't a trust issue it is more of a moral issue, i don't know if this is right or wrong, girls i have asked said 'it's disguising behaviour' but lads say it's what guys do he means no harm. I am torn between if it is right or wrong!

I prefer Victoria secret because they offer a bigger variety. Like I usually get lace but not with sexual intentions. I jus like to know that I'm wearing something pretty and somewhat comfy. My friend on the other hand likes playtex because they're super comfy even though not all that cute. We're both in the DD+ but still? Girls which do you prefer? And guys which would you prefer a girl to wear? Like I jus wanted to be nice and ask guys how they felt as well. I won't take yalls answer into much consideration tho because I dont plan on lifting my shirt for any guy soon. Lol maybe in the future when Im married. But yea I just wanna see if me or my friend gets more votes when it comes to me liking VS and her liking Playtex. Please keep this rated PG13 y'all :)

My best guy friend knows I have a crush on him. We are really close and spent all summer texting all day long and hanging out when we could. We both are in other relationships so we can't see each other too much outside of school. We talked about everything including his darkest secrets and lots of sexual stuff.

Now we are back in school and he's started being hot and cold with me. We tease and break balls a lot but just this week he's started to call me names. He called me bitch once and cunt a bunch of times. He NEVER does this when anyone else can hear. It's like an inside joke or pet name he has for me. He doesn't do this with anyone else. He knows I don't like that word, so he keeps calling me that, whispering it to me or saying it under his breath.

I told him today that it had to stop and he said it was a just a joke to " include" me? WTF? I asked if he thought I deserved to be called that and he seemed really hurt that I was hurt.

I know he likes me a lot. We touch every day, hugs, high fives, grooming each other, long eye contact, sitting all up on each other, whispering a lot, sharing food and drinks, etc. I know he loves to make me mad. He grins like an idiot and seems really pleased with himself when I threaten to murder him.

He's always teasing me about liking him, saying things like " you know you want it" and talking about his genitals and getting boners, etc. He kind of rubs it in my face that I like/want him. He also like to pretend to be an alpha male and he says I "challenge" him, by calling him on his bs.

Is this some really immature flirting technique? He says he loves me AND hates me at the same time. What does that mean? I am nothing but nice to him and I think I've made my feelings clear to him, so it's just hurtful that he does this and thinks it is somehow funny. Am I being too sensitive?

My guy friend of 3 years has always been super attentive to me, sweet, devoted like a puppy. He is always as close to me as he can get and touches my upper arm, shoulders, lower back, lets his hand rest too long on mine if he hands me st, holds eye contact forever, has played with my hair, notices EVERY little thing about my appearance, has fed me off his spoon after he'd used it, presses his arms/thighs into mine when we sit side by side and he's said he loves me, just not romantically. We tease each other a LOT and he calls me "girl"/"woman" and pretends like he's mad. He wanted to buy me a gift for "putting up with" him. He told me recently that I've been his other fave person (besides gf) for two yrs. he's been with her 18 mos.

We've both been taken the whole time we've been friends but we have become emotionally intimate and it feels like more than just friends. We messaged and texted ALL summer and talked about everything under the sun, deep stuff, silly jokes, how he's bored with his gf and wants to be free this year to "kindle new flames". He's asked me about sexual things I might be into, like bdsm, hook ups with friends, 3ways, pd sex, but the racier the q, the more he plays it off like jk, wasn't REALLY asking! But he's told me he likes me boobs and complains that gf has a boys body. He's asked me to brush stuff off his butt and never moves away if I put my hand on his thigh or play his hair/stroke his face. He's shown every sign of liking me but won't make a move. He says he hates cheaters but aren't we already cheating emotionally? He said he couldn't take the shame of kissing another girl while he has a gf. He said he doesn't want to hurt her by breaking up bc she is so in love with him, much more than he is w/her. I'm getting sick of his wallowing in misery when he could just end it if he really is as unsatisfied as he says. I told him today that I think it's unrealistic to think one person could meet all your needs/desires. What should I do?

This is all a very long story, but to make it short. He liked me in high school, I liked him in college. We dated briefly in high school and I broke up with him. Then we almost dated in college... except he told me he was just trying to get back at me for not liking him in high school. It was a mess. He said he was just using me to make up for his own loneliness. We never kissed or anything... it was bizarre.

Fast forward some.. I said we couldn't be friends, he begged and begged. I finally gave in b/c I realized it was doing more hurt than good... So we restarted our friendship. I hated hanging out w/ him at first b/c I didn't trust him. I kind of still don't?

He and I are really really bad at not being close friends. We actually like telling each other our secrets and hearing each other's opinions. I didn't want to be close w/ him like this ever again, but we seem to weasel our way into each other's lives no matter what. fml.

So two weeks ago I was very stressed. Over the phone he asked me when it was that I last got laid and with whom. He suggested I use it as a stress reliever. As we are NOT that close right now, I thought this was REALLY awkward! It's like he's checking in on my sex life.

Week later I got wasted and wrote him about how I thought it was a weird/awkward question. So last night... we have an ENTIRE discussion about sex and our sexual experiences. It was fine and hilarious sharing some silly things.

I just worry about getting too close with him again. I mean, where do we draw the friendship line? We both had very strong feelings for one another at some point in our lives and neither of us want to like the other again... so where do we stop telling each other things?