Search Results: scared of commitment

A guy who likes me a lot but is commtment phobic said he wants to giv us sumtime. Is now saying his choice is different for a life partner. what to do?

I met a guy and we instantly liked each other. We liked each others company. He told me that he really likes me but needs time because he is scared of commitment as he had a bad break up last year. I understood his...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He asked for space, how long should I give him?

I’ve been seeing this guy for a few months. Long story short my mum doesn’t like him and forbid me from seeing him. From that point I was anxious and worried about seeing him. He then had doubts and was also struggling...

Anonymous

(25-29)

To what degree should you change to be in a serious relationship?

My question to you as the reader of this is how much do you think you have to change to start/keep/preserve a relationship? I want to state this now that I have no serious relationship right now. I am also going through a...

stimpy3999

Xper 4 Age: 43

A guy who was interested in me and liked me a lot is suddenly acting distant. Please see for full details. What can I do?

I met a guy few months back. We instantly liked each other and he told me he is interested to know me more. We went on many dates and were in touch regularly. He also told me in the very beginning that he is not...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to rebuild confidence?

Over the past few years, I have slowly lost essentially all of my self esteem and self confidence. I feel pathetic, unattractive, incompetent, socially inept and struggle to love myself as I can't find anything about me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

A guy who was interested in me and really liked me a lot is suddenly behaving distant. He has fear commiting. Please see details. What should I do?

Anonymous

(36-45)

He said he needs time to think but it feels like torture to me?

I was seeing this guy for a few months and randomly out of the blue it got messy. He said the fact that my mum hates him (we have to keep it secret Cos she forbid me from seeing him) makes that situation difficult and we...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Commitment issues?

How do I know if a guy is scared of commitment and that’s why he’s pushing me away and making excuses for why he can’t be with me

lilmamiale

Xper 4 Age: 28

Dating ex again, says he isn't ready for commitment, what to do?

I've been dating my ex again for one and a half months now. We're having a really nice time, but I want this to move on to something more and not to stay in this vague phase. I mean, we know eachother pretty well, so it's...

bongiorno

Xper 4 Age: 30

Would you ever date a guy who is kind of a wuss?

I kind of liked a guy cause we are so alike. Just like two peas in a pod. Same interest, values and same opinions (maybe different sometimes). We can have endless conversations without catching a break and can never get...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is she afraid of commitment?

There’s this girl at my school that a lot of other guys like too and she seems to talk and know a lot of guys I didn’t expect she’d know. somehow I got to hang out with her and we made out. I asked her if she has any...

Anonymous

(25-29)

There’s this girl at my school that a lot of other guys like too and she seems to talk and know a lot of guys I didn’t expect she’d know. somehow I got to hang out with her and we made

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Do men really get scared of commitment after being in a long term relationship?

I met a guy 3 months ago, he keeps saying he doesn’t want commitment but also wants me around, talks to me every day. And we both enjoy each other’s company. I’ve agreed at the moment to leave things the way they are,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Pls see details. How to make things like b4 after I hav scared off a commitment phobic guy?

Me and a guy like each other a lot. He told me wants to take time because of his past and is scared of relationship. I unknowingly started behaving needy and clingy for which i even apologized to him. He is acting...

Sanya08

Xper 4 Age: 37

My crush asked me out but I don't know if I'm ready to date?

My crush asked me to be his girlfriend. I was so excited! But, at the same time, nervous. I'm very non-committal. Commitment scares me. I really do like him, but I don't know if I'm ready to date. What should I say?

Anonymous

(25-29)

My crush asked me to be his girlfriend. I was so excited! But, at the same time, nervous. I'm very non-committal. Commitment scares me. I really do like him, but I don't know if

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Relationship advice please?

Its a long read but i would appreciate it!!! After being with someone for almost 4 years. We have had a on and off again but usually with a good distance between. I love him very very much and we have came through a lot...

Jjj456

Xper 4 Age: 27

A guy likes me a lot but he has commitment issues and is acting distant suddenly. Pls c details. what should I do?

Hi i met a guy 2 months back. We instantly liked each other. He told me he really likes me and he considers me more than a friend. But he needs time for relationship as he is a commitment phobic because of his past....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do a lot/all high school guys avoid their crushes?

I'm in high school (a senior) and I have noticed that most guys at this age usually avoid people they like. I have had guys like me and made it obvious (teasing, touching, talking). Others not so obvious (just glancing,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating with commitment issues?

I've been dating my boyfriend for a few months and I really do love him but the thought of commitment scares me. I'm scared to think about the future in fear that it won't be perfect and that results in me second guessing...

Anonymous

(25-29)