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Me and my ex tried to figure things out, she started seeing someone else right as we started.


She met someone on tinder early dec, had a dinner date that wasn't romantic. While we tried to figure things out, she kept texting with him however they never really met after that dinner (because she spent the entire time with me) and kept telling me how much she loves me, giving me assurances because I was skeptical about how serious she was.

We then had a fight the weekend before Christmas and she ended up spending the night at his place all of a sudden instead of mine as we had planned, along with Tuesday and then she went to her parents house on wednedsday for Christmas break. Over this break, she suddenly decided that she'll go exclusive with this guy? I mean they barely know each other and me and her were together for 1 year, I talked to her last night and I saw it in her eyes that she still wants me but holds back because she think they're a "couple" since he said he's not seeing anyone else.


he's the opposite of her type, he's as tall as her (shes extremely short) and skinny and she likes to be carried like a princess to bed, lol. he's got cats, she's got a dog plus she's allergic to cats. She admitted to not being attracted to him but she likes him on an emotional level.

As for me and her, she's super attracted to me both physically and emotionally and everything is great between us except for that I hurt her once when I went into depression during a cruical time for her causing our break up. Something I'm over but she's too scared to start over because of past relationship trauma, she gave her ex husband many chances and he hurt her real bad. Now thats projected onto me...

Is he a rebound or whats even going on here? It's unheard of for me that someone finds another person that fast while being in love so deeply 3 weeks ago like she said she was for me.