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Even if you trust them like do you really trust the people they're with?
I always felt fine with it because I always want my boyfriend to have lots of friendships, but all the happy long term married couples in my life act like I'm really naïve; and to be honest I've been cheated on before so I don't know what to think. I'm not a really jealous person, and I want them to be happy; but I also don't want to get hurt again either.
p. s. I'm not really a buzzword person but I wanted to be inclusive so I did my best with it

So basically there was four of us hanging out two guys and two girls. The girl is one of my closest friends. Before I talk about the incident let me give you some background information. The previous weekend I had gone out and I had been drinking and I slept over a one of my guy friends house but we didn’t do anything besides sleeping. He had tried to but I didn’t want to. Now back to the hangout. We were all there and mind you these 2 guys don’t know about me sleeping over at his house. My friend also knows that they don’t know. She then decides to bring it up and I got super uncomfortable because she starts saying how they were talking and apparently he said I tried to kiss him and I wanted to do things with him but he rejected me and she was laughing about it. The thing is he never told me anything about this and so I got confused and just asked her to stop cause I don’t really talk to the two guys there (she’s closer to them) and I felt that this is something she should’ve told me by myself. I was trying to defend myself and she just kept talking over me and laughing saying how it’s so funny that the 2 sides of the story or completely different. Even one of her friends told her to stop cause it was too much already. I texted him about it and he texted her and she got mad saying I shouldn’t have told him anything. Then we were fine. I didn’t even get to talk to him so the next day I texted him to actually ask him about what he had told her and so I’m texting him and I get a message from her saying how i’m so stupid and because of me she lost a friendship with him. I just told her that of course I was gonna text him because it’s my situation and I wanna know what else he said. She then said that nobody cares and I need to get over it and I was too extra and shouldn’t have said anything. I think that I’m in the right because of course I was gonna text him to see what’s up. Let me know what y’all think.