Search Results: having the butterflies

Those times where no one talks to you--what to do?

I used to be really shy. Over the past two years, I've worked really hard at it, to the point where now I can strike up conversations with anyone and people who see me for the first time assume I'm a social butterfly....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I give this guy a chance?

So, I have this really good guy friend, and if he wasn't a guy he'd probably be my best friend. But since he is, there's the normal guy/girl awkwardness between us and then there's thole whole feelings (ew) thing to worry...

Anonymooos

Xper 5 Age: 31

All my friends are dating?! and I think I like one..

i have a large group of friends, there are about 9 of us (4 girls 5 boys) and all the girls and guys seem to have paired off. there are like 3 of us who are not dating (myself and two guys) and group gatherings are often...

sammanthaR

Xper 5 Age: 31

Shopping & Gifts

Is a notebook with inspirational quote a good gift?

A female friend of mine is having her 21st birthday soon, and I am thinking of getting her a gift that will put a smile on her face. So I am thinking of giving her a notebook (about A4 size, 4cm to 5cm thick) with a...

psm357

Xper 7 Age: 36

Society & Politics

Is it normal to have feelings for a friend when you're married?

I've been married for 3 years to a great man but I recently seen an old coworker of mine that I had really strong feelings for years ago.My husband and I were dating at the time I had these feelings for my coworker. It...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How does 'being yourself' work if you are fairly undesirable?

So the advice "just be yourself" is used somewhat often, but what if being yourself means that you are an awkward, introverted dork? It's not that I'm that with with girls. I'm pretty much that way with everyone. I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He's always inviting his friends when we hang out. Interested? Or am I just a "good friend?"

He's been trying to talk to me, showing interest in my personal life, remembering my schedule, noticing little things (my shoe size, for ex.), making future plans like "hey, we should do [this] sometime," etc. He's just...

jlyoko

Xper 3 Age: 34

I'm in a good relationship but I'm having feelings for my past crush?

I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and I love him very much. I don't understand why I have begun to have feelings for my past crush. Here's basically how it began... for the sake of making this as simple...

Anonymous

(30-35)

This has left me wondering..

When guys are in love, are they also having butterflies, and thinking about the girl 24/7, waiting for here to come online and stuff like that? I saw a post on Facebook and got a little curios!

Ijustloveyou

Xper 7 Age: 31

Dating

What would you do in this situation?

my best friend & I have known each other for a couple of months(: Him & I do everything together, from going to the movies, to eating lunch & even playing video games. lately I've been having these feelings for him, I get...

ileeean

Xper 5 Age: 34

How do I confront him?

Hello! my best friend & I have known each other for a couple of months(: Him & I do everything together, from going to the movies, to eating lunch & even playing video games. lately I've been having these feelings for...

AshLove1901

Xper 5 Age: 34

Some intense eye contact from my man? Gentlemen, what does it mean?

I love my boyfriend and he loves me, yadayada. I am IN love with him, but he has not admitted to being IN love with me. The other day he made a really big deal about making sure he made eye contact with me (the kind...

louiseee

Xper 6 Age: 33

Break Up & Divorce

Tips on how to get over this guy?

I met a guy a year ago and I've been crazy about him ever since, before the summer we really hit it off and it was great. Then something happened which made us a bit awkward and we didn't talk or meet up that often. I got...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

I'm having trouble forgetting my first love... or infatuation... how do you forget them?

They say you never truly get over your first love. For about an unhealthy 2 or 3 years, I was obsessed with my dance teacher, to the point where it was creepy. I thought about him non-stop, I checked his Facebook as much...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I talk to him or just wait it out? Any suggestions?

I have known my one male friend for at least 4 years now, and for all of the years I’ve known him everyone has always said he was “the one” for me and that there was something between us but I always sort of dismissed...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

A love story drama?

My love life is like a drama movie you may see on Lifetime or something. My life was fine till my good friend S introduced me to her boyfriend T. Let me start I guess how I met my good friend we will call S. S and I met...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do girls assume I already have a girlfriend?

When I actually don't, It kind of makes me wonder sometimes, I'm living a single life now, and to be honest I can not say I'm 100% fine with it. . . I think is good to have a special someone to share good moments with,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Calming your nerves?

How do you calm your nerves when your giving a speech, having dinner with that new guy or gal you adore, etc. I am perfectly fine no nerves to worry about...until 5 minutes till the big event! Then the big huge...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)