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My guy crush and I have recently gotten more sexual in what we message about. He always brings it up and I just go along as far as he wants... I thought. Lately he's been bringing up sex acts and stuff like bondage and asking (in general?) what I thought about hookups with friends (!), 3somes, sex on my period and were these things I would want. He never asked me what I want HIM to do to ME, just kept it FYI ish. But before I can answer he types NOO... DONT ANSWER THAT. What is that about? I got mad and felt stupid bc he said he was jk and his questions were all jokes, not serious inquiries. Earlier this week I told him I was all sweaty from dancing and he said yum. Is that another sarcastic joke? We message any time we feel like it and have one continuous convo about everything but it's gotten much racier lately. He's described his boxer briefs (not the pkg yet) and sends me random (clean) pics of himself looking yummy.

I don't think he's jk. He shows every single sign of being into me we've already said we love each other to some extent.
He keeps telling me he's an open book and I can know anything if I ask the right questions. What does that mean? is he trying to get me to ask him out or to take things to the next level? Emotionally, I feel like we're already a couple, just not physically. He constantly touches my arms, (kinda gives me little circular light scratches... mmmm), shoulder pats and firm hands on my lower back, like he's claiming me. He sits all over me, fluffs my hair, lets his hand rest on mine and STARES into my eyes every second we talk. I have his constant attention and he is always finding ways to bump into me during the day.

We share a class and are in clubs together. He's been on FB today trying to get me to meet him at a festival this w/e and we've made plans to hang out after school to "help clean". He conveniently mentioned where kids sneak sex at school and we're going to be alone in a small, dark closet for at least an hour.

Ok so here it is in pointform

Been sleeping with a guy from my home town past few years when I visit

We act like a couple when together but rarely text when apart

When I told him I was moving back he offered me to move into his place

I brought it up when I was visiting, he laughed and said we would have 4 kids the first year if we lived together.

I assumed that was a no. I told him that if I moved in and we were just friend no sex... if I moved in and we were having sex than I wanted a relationship... just makes things easy. We have to many mutual friends.

Later he made a slip up of saying "When you move in... I mean if you decide to move in"

I left it at that... but WTF does that mean?
I'm not moving back for another 9 months. we never defined anything but should I assume something was there?

My bf and i have been dating for 10 months and live together. He was the one that asked me to move in 8 months ago. We have our ups and downs and fight more then other couples dating for this long I'm sure because I have trust issues and I'm insecure. Sometimes I think he doesn't really wanna be with me or cheating on me. Here are the reasons.
1.he can be a jerk when we are out in public like ignore me or not really pay much attention to me
2.He checks out other girls but says I just think it Cuz I don't trust him. (it's not an obvious check out but if i see a girl walk by i will sometimes look at him)
3. He says he wants to get married and have a kid with me.someday. he finishes inside of me and says we will get married within 5 years. But sometimes I don't know if i should believe that by the way he treats me somedays
4. Couple weeks ago he was all loving and even during sex he would ask what position I liked better and he's never asked before. So kinda made me think he was cheating. Then would say I love u more then normal and just being really sweet then the next weeks he was kinda being a jerk again
5. He has talked shit to his friends before say in i smell. Which if i did that bad I don't know why he would stay with me.
6. He has told me I suck in bed and I asked why is he with me then and he said because he loves me and it isn't just all about sex.
7. I've mentioned taking a break before Cuz I get sick of how he is sometimes but he always tells me he doesn't want too and he has even mentioned we go to counseling to help our relationship.
8. He can be a flirt when he's drinking which I hate
9. Everytime I try n talk to him about our relationship he never likes to talk about it prob Cuz I bring it up almost every night. Only Cuz we never have a good talk about it. And he will just tell me to grow up and start trusting him.
Like I said I have trust issues and have been hurt in the past that's why I think like this.