Search Results: when a husband and wife cheat

This is a question for those who have same-sex relationships, so gay, bi, pan, etc.
(I Posted an equivilant question for those in hetero relationships, look on my profile for that)

If you got cheated on, would it bother you slightly less if it was with someone of the opposite gender than the same one?
E. g.
For males, would it be less upsetting for your boyfriend/husband to cheat with a woman than a man?
For females, would it bother you less if your girlfriend/wife cheated with a man than a woman?

This is a question for those who have opposite-sex relationships, so straight, bi, pan, etc.

If you got cheated on, would it bother you slightly less if it was with someone of your partner's gender rather than your gender?
E. g.
For males, would it be less upsetting for your girlfriend/wife to cheat with another woman than a man?
For females, would it bother you less if your boyfriend/husband cheated with another man than a woman?

(I Might post an equivalent question for those in same-sex relationship, so look at my profile)

https://youtu.be/k7ghn1FwP44

The youtube video is about a man wanting to cheat on ( /dump ) his partner for her being fat and so many guys agree with it in the comment section. What do you think? Would you that even though you have kids?