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There is this guy i had such a big crush on in my teen years and he’s 10 years older than me. He always flirted with me but he was never open hisself, he knew I liked him a lot cause my friend told him. He’s not actually rejected me but doesn’t gave me attention and ignored me being with another girls etc. I can understand now maybe he likes the attention but I was young and getting together would be inappropriate. Few days ago his childhood friend basically his bestfriend (they are working together) add me on instagram we start talking and he said he wants to be my boyfriend. His also 10 years older and I always felt he kinda like me. But i am sure he knew i was into his bestie i rejected him cause I’ll start college and he said I’ll waiting you (funny i know). After 2 days the guy i had crush on add me too and he has a girlfriend! I post an outfit selfie. He’s reacting my story with emojis. Normally a boy who has a girlfriend doesn’t (shouldn’t) do these things. We don’t see each other about 3 years and I turn to 20. So boys who are besties text same girl at the same time? Does he even know his friend into me? Why he react me while he has a girlfriend? Is he a player why would he remind hisself?

You need to know, i am in a kind of relationship with this guy i met for some months now. We are not officially dating and we decided that we won't change that so soon. We are just like a couple.
i have feelings for him -i dont love him but there is something and he is the best thing that happened to me, and I also got the vibes that he likes me, too.
To the story: we had prom. I was there with some of my friends and he was there with his and we have seen each us there just for a second.
One friend of mine had a big crush on my other friend and i shipped them a lot. At one point me and him were alone on the dancefloor and we talked about his crush and i told him what to do to get her and so
- i should mention that we both were little drunk BUT i am not gonna blame it on the alcohol - we were dancing and having fun and suddenly we were making out... it was for about 2 minutes till i stopped it bcs i realized that thats a huge mistake.
My „boyfriend“ found out about it and he run over to my bestfriend... he was maaaad and he also had tears in his eyes... he talked to her snd he told her that i should not call him ever again... he indirectly said that he is done with me.

I texted him and called him a lot but he ignored me. He didn't want to see me.
I am so sorry, and i reget it soooo much... i dont know what happend to me or why i did it and i can't justify nothing... i know it was a mistake and that i hurt him bad but i dont want to lose him. He means so fking much to me.

You have to know i dont have a lot if experience with dating and stuff like that, and that i am actually always loyal and a romantic type person... I've risked a lot for him in the past months, just to be with him.
It was planned that i will save myself till marriage but i was ready to give this up for him -thats how much he means to me bcs i would never sleep with someone i dont trust or have feelings for

He was my first time for everything and i dont wanna loose him.

I am new into a company and don't have really somebody to be with. Before, I eat lunch with my bestfriend (neighborhood company) but she left me because she choose to be with his new boyfriend.

Now I eat my lunch every time alone. Going to fast food chain and having my own dish on a table.

There was a guy who has a crush on me in the office. And he wondered who is with me in lunch. I tell him, I eat alone. Then, he invited me to have dinner with him and his male friends.

I know his male friends kinda like me too , keeping saying I look pretty. But his circle of friends are known in the office of playboys, noisiest and party guys.

Of course, I want to be with someone to eat dinner with but no one invites me. I tried to be friendly with other girls and asked them to eat with but after that they just left me and never ask if I want to eat with them again.

Do u think I should eat this group of MALE GUYS or is it better to eat Alone? My other officemates might think bad if I eat with bunch of boys.