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A decently handsome and attractive guy walks up to you and cold-approaches you on of the blue in the street one day, and somehow seems to know exactly the right things to say, and the right way to go about saying them, to get you to agree to go out on a date with him, and to get you really interested in him. You start going out together, and each date goes perfectly, with the guy pulling off a flawless performance each time; you find out that he's a successful self-made multi-millionaire, and on the third date, you have sex with him for the first time, and he's easily the best sex partner you've ever had, seeming to know intuitively what all of your sexual switches and sweet spots are, and to be able to flick those switches at will.

Then, a few months into your exclusive relationship, he take you aside, tells you that he wants to get serious and commit to an LTR with you, and that he doesn't want to keep secrets from you any more. He then goes on to say that he possesses mild telepathic abilities, hearing the thoughts and reading the minds of anyone who he makes eye-contact with; admitting not just that he obtained his wealth and corporate success courtesy of his telepathic ability, but that this ability was also what enabled him to do so well when it came to approaching, seducing and pleasuring you. How would you react to him telling you that? And what would you do next?

I know that the idea of a doormat in a relationship is someone who does everything for his girlfriend because she says so and he's afraid but I actually like it. I feel relaxed and good if I'm doing something for an SO.

If she's back from a tough day at work, I want to cook her dinner or give her a massage to help her relax. If we're in bed, I put her pleasure first. If we wake up together in bed, I want to get her breakfast in bed and give her a foot rub.

I'm not doing this because I feel like I have to. It's because I want to. I feel pleasure when I give it to the right person. I want to have a girlfriend/wife who I can pamper, romance or treat. I want to adore her and show it. I dream of being able to do this and I do dream of caring for her more than I think of sex.

I realise that that might seem 'submissive' and guys aren't supposed to do that but I can still have my own opinion and we both have our own lives. I just put her first. I suppose it is submission but it's not about whips and chains, more love and trust.

If we were together and I did that, would you be turned off?