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Just like everyone else on here I am having my fair share of boy problems... I guess my issue is what this guy really wants from me. We've dated before for 4 years and now we're basically bf/gf without a title. My best bet would be to give you some conversation between us and I want to see what you guys think. Am I getting used? Could he be serious about wanting to focus on school? WHAT DOES HE WANT. (That being said he never seems to give me the full truth "because he doesn't want to hurt me")

Me: "I just wish you would be more of a friend to me like I need you to be"
Him: "I can easily be your friend but I just think you're asking more of me then what a friend should be giving"

Me: "... Once we move past all the issues between us and we're we want to be financially and academically, would you be willing to work on us again?"
Him: "yeah absoultely. I think it would be stupid of me to just walk away considering we've already been through so much that has really shaped us into who we are"

Him: " The other day we didn't kiss at all i could tell that was bothering you and its not like im saying i feel bad but i do it b/c I know its what you want and its hard for me not to given everything we've been through"

Another thing that really stuck on me was he's telling me that he doesn't want me to get the wrong idea about us and how we're just friends and how he "doesnt want to push me away but tries not to pull me too close" I start to really think because if he doesn't want to "pull me close" or "give me the wrong idea" then why is he telling me he'd be willing to work on us again?

So... :) Months ago, we were really flirty, and hooked up on a few occasions, but then out of no where he disappears. but comes back into my life

Last night, I texted him, and he responded and called me, confused. he told me he was drunk, and we were texting for a while; and he said something like he was naked, and I asked him if he was trying seduce me, and he said maybe.but somewhere during the texts he said he wanted to come to my area and hang. and let me add, it was 2 in the morning, and so we did.

before we meet up I told him I didn't want him drinking and driving. but then he responded with 'i only said I was drunk so it would give me an excuse to talk to you'

and I SAID he never needs an excuse, and I asked why he felt like that, and HE SAID he 'doesnt have the balls', and he went on to say 'i feel like I have to be drunk or say I am to say or do things.' and then he said he was very bad at the whole being smooth thing, etc.

sooo we meet up. nothing happened, he drove over an hour to see me, to only spend an hour.

I don't know what to think, I guess he likes me, but I don't want to get hurt again. and to be honest he is the only guy that can make me laugh in any situation...

What do you guy, and ladies think?

P.S. If you guys need more info please ask! :)