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I'm a black guy that's grown up in predominantly white neighborhoods, attended predominantly white schools, and has been a member of mostly black/mixed churches. I tend to embrace the things that are stereotypically black like fried chicken, basketball, and rap/R&B music. However, I also enjoy some stereotypically white things like watching shows similar to Friends, taking Facebook quizzes, and eating healthy/organic.

My black friends always pick on me for the white stuff, especially the healthy eating. They also say I'm too privileged and always try to count my money. My white friends don't care at all. They tend to embrace my uniqueness, but they don't see me as one of them, if you know what I mean.

When it comes to dating, I've gone out with mostly mixed girls and one black girl. They were cool, but most of them wanted to be just friends and 2 of them saw me as not black enough.

Many people from church members to my mom pressure me to date black women, particularly dark-skinned. However, mostly white and mixed girls will say hi or smile at me in public, at school, or at work. Black girls don't give me attention that often.

I did something unconventional for me recently and attended a black probate at my university. I garnered attention from a lot of black girls. They patted me on my shoulder and started saying/asking things like "what frat you in", "you crispy", and "nice haircut". One of my friends told me I should cross and join a frat. But that's not for me. I don't want to not be myself, just to get the attention from black women that my mom and church members desire.

Within the past month, quite a few white girls have approached me and one even asked me on a date. I've never been with a white girl and am considering going that route. But then part of me thinks I should hold out for another mixed or black girl to come along. I really don't know which way to go. I want to be in a real long term relationship for once and be happy.

Alright so there's this girl in my history class that i'm attracted to i may even like her. We sit right next to each other every day but we don't really talk a lot. In class we both try our best to listen so we keep any small talk at a minimum. Whenever we do talk it's usually about the course material.

She seems kind of awkward whenever i'm around though. Whenever we talk she always gives me direct eye contact and smiles at me. I swear she has the cutest smile ever and it's like her entire face lights up whenever she does.

Overall though we don't really interact a lot. Whenever she sees me she at least says hey to which i respond back... but that's really about it. Other than the frequent glances and a few times when she teased me in class. Heck even today there was another classmate of ours answering a question and i turned to listen to what he was saying. I felt she was staring at me and i turned to look her way she definitely was. It was kind of awkward and she looked away the minute we made eye contact. In general though whenever she sees me she usually waves or says hey and keeps walking. On Mondays we usually have a quiz to take and whenever i walk in she'll ask me if i'm ready. The semester is about to end in 2 weeks and i don't even have her number yet or anything. Is she just being friendly? What should i do next?