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I was seeing a guy that I met on Tinder who was the most nicest and sweetest guy I ever dated. He was also very innocent, he's only ever been with one girl, he is very cautious about every decision he makes, he strictly doesn't want to drink, smoke or go to parties. I thought it was cute how he stood by his morals and I respected that. I am not a big party girl or a big drinker but I wondered if our differences would be a problem, because I do drink occasionally, I don't mind parties, and I know when the rules can be bent. We ended up meeting a few times just to hangout and the third time we met up, we had sex and we both enjoyed it. After seeing each other a few more times and talking about really serious things (mostly coming from him), I asked him if we were exclusive. l didn't mean to rush anything, but I was confused as I was still actively on Tinder. He said that is what he wanted, but he said he wanted me to get tested for STD's before we became exclusive. I thought this was weird since we already had sex with protection, but I thought it was a fair request so I did get tested (I am clean).

Anyway, before my results came back, we had sex a second time and I went down on him. After the sex, it was clear that he wasn't okay. He was upset that I went down on him, in the chance that I had an STD. I didn't really think about it when I did it, cause I figured we already kissed anyway? and before I did it, I showed clear signs of what I was going to do and he had plenty of time to say "no". When he told me that, I did not react well cause I was embarrassed by the rejection and was angry because he kept bringing up the testing. It made me feel like he had a certain assumption of the kind of person I was, basically we got into a fight (over text) and he took it very personally and to heart. After we cooled down we talked it over and he said that "He needed space and time to think." Its been 5 days since, and I haven't heard from him. Did I lose him?

I was just thinking about this the other night. A guy I had been seeing (like a year and a half ago) for like a month had told me after the second date that he had an STD that would never go away. We never went out after that again because I obviously didn’t want to get attached because I would eventually catch it myself if we started sleeping together ya feel?

Alex is 23 years old. He is a college graduate, religious, and has a degree in engineering. He graduated from college but never could find a job in his field. They all rejected him because he had no experience. or jobs were taken. Alex got his first job at Walmart and only makes 8 dollars an hour and is 70 thousand dollars in student loan debt that eventually got into 90 thousand ex was also getting treatment for a STD he got from his girlfriend. ( she cheated and passed on the disease) Alex loves his girlfriend and would often pay 200 dollars per date, spend half of his paycheck on her and was always nice and sweet to her. He never got the money back. dollars. Alex worked at this Walmart for three years with the same 8 dollar salary. One day Alex asked his boss for a raise. Boss says no and says he can only make 8 dollars an hour.

Then Dustin walks in. Dustin is a 21 year old man who's a high school dropout, who wears panties and but he's a self taught cyber security protector, with mad computer hacking skills. The boss knows that Dustin used to carry knives, cross dresses and has mental problems but Dustin made a good resume. ( Dustin has never worked here, and boss only knew him for two months) The boss tells Dustin he's highly intelligent, smart and offers him a job paying 23 dollars an hour, the boss says he'll also raise it to 30 and will pay for benefits. Dustin blushes and accepts. Alex is so angry he has a strong urge to beat, strangle and kill Dustin and his boss.. When alex first talks to Dustin, Dustin talks about how he likes to wear panties and touches his penis a little in front of Alex. Alex is so disgusted.