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My ex broke things off while he was on vacation. He texted said we need to talk then called & said that text was a “slip”. He said he wasn’t feeling it anymore & things weren’t progressing. After asking why, he said “you wanna know the truth? I never developed feelings for you since day 1.” So for 6 months he never developed feelings. The convo ended abruptly, but instead of calling back or seeing me in person... he ghosted me.

when we dated, everything was too perfect. We clicked like it was meant to be. We ignored the 10 year gap because it felt like we were meant to be. He wrote me paragraphs how he’s crazy about me, cares about me to the moon and back, how I’ll be his wife, this and that. He spent $400 on flowers for Vday- basically the way he acted & things he said, made me build fantasies about the future of us. He got a new house and I decorated it all. He introduced me to his entire family, his close friends and their families. He called me his fiancé. Literally eveything was going perfect and he always told me he’s going to fight for me and stay by my side no matter what happens because we are meant to be and no other man will ever have me. From all the good morning baby texts to goodnight baby texts to Random i miss you and I’m thinking about you texts to other texts and convos, I was happy and assured he was the one according to how he acted with me.

We had arguments but resolved them and never stayed mad. There were red flags though. he was emotionally and verbally abusive but was blinded by how much I fell for him. He told me things any woman would be upset about but i ignored. I thought I was overthinking or he gave an explanation. He slowly stopped to care, he didn’t compliment me, made me feel I wasn’t good enough for him. The make outs, touching, hugging stopped. He was always on his phone. I became cold towards him due to his behavior because he was acting cold & rude with me.

I'm an Asian girl who still lives under my parents roof. I've been talking to the Mexican guy for about 4 months. I can tell he he really likes me. He likes me more than I like him. As a child my mom would always say find someone who likes/loves me more than I like/love him.
Before I told my dad I was talking to a Mexican guy I asked him if he would let me date outside of my race and he said no. When I asked for an explanation he told me "you are the farm and your significant other will be the seeds. If you plant corn, your farm will grow corn. If you plant rice, your farm will grow rice. If you plant beans, your farm will grow beans." He looks up at me then contiues "you understand what I'm saying right? im saying you can't date another race because you must keep your farm your farm. It must not change."
I tried talking him out of that but my dad is the type of guy to not change his mind. So I cut off the mexican guy once for about a week. But we ended up talking again and I need help right now.
I dont know if I should keep trying with this guy or just just stop. Another thing thst is bothering me is that he doesn't drive, he is not in college, he's working and studying to go to the marines and i want to support him but has failed the test about 4 times now.
I dont know to do and I need someone else's opionion. Right now I'm 18 and about to go off to collage in the fall. I was thinking maybe if I keep talking to him, things will get better. Help me.