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Search Results: casual flings
Is "not ugly" good enough?
I know girls say looks don't matter that much, but it does. I know I am so not the type that every girl would drool over,but I also think I am slightly above average,but obviously everyone thinks they are better looking...
Anonymous
(36-45) Need a guy's translation to help me find closure. I've been a workaholic, barely eating or sleeping.
Over a LA summer party, I met a guy. He was nice and helped take care my drunk friend. We hooked up, but I was tense and he asked if it was my first time. I said kinda because with my last boyfriend, it was too...
daydreamer1234
Xper 4 Age: 34 I want to ask out my casual fling
To cut a VERY long story short, the guy I assumed was a bit of a casual fling might want something more (and I want something more). I met him through a close friend of mine who is best friends with this guy. basically...
Anonymous
(36-45) Does he want more than just a casual fling?
OK I met a guy through friends in may, since then we've text every day, we've met a few times at home mostly when one of us is drunk! Went to the cinema once with two others, he's moved away and is living with my best man...
Anonymous
(36-45) I think I messed it up with a girl I love
Quick rundown... -Im a junior in college -I have known this girl, who had a boyfriend since I met her, and is a year behind me in school. -Im into her, and am 99% sure she was into me. -Two weeks ago, I hooked up with...
jhv222
Xper 5 Age: 33 How to be his girlfriend rather than a hookup?
I met this guy a few months ago through a good friend of mine. First time we met we hit it off pretty well and we ended up kissing at the end of the night. Since then we've hung out with friends and that and we've been...
Anonymous
(36-45) Am I out of line here? too clingy?
So I have been dating this girl for about a year. We both love each other and want to be with each other, and there are talks about the future (marriage etc). She went to Europe for 2 months over the summer and returned....
Radiohead200
Xper 3 Age: 40 How can I be less emotional and more fair to the one I care about?
Hello. I'm reconnecting with an ex boyfriend. We acted like we were together both times that we saw each other. But a lot of time has passed and we have different things going for us in life.I want to slowly connect our...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do some men move on so quickly?
My ex recently dumped me. He accused me of lying about something , which I was not lying about. In the end I just agreed with him because I was just too tired to argue with him anymore. He then tells me the next day...
Anonymous
(36-45) 6 month drought...WTF?
About 6 months ago I broke up with my long-distance, long-term girlfriend because I a) wasn't 100% sure if long distance was the smartest thing to do and b) because I wanted to try other options to see what was best for...
slowtaking
Xper 5 Age: 44 Do You think that Eastern Culture is More Mature than Western Society?
First off, let me say that this has nothing to do with blood or race of the people(just so race doesn't become apart of the discussion) but simply based on the mentality and outlook that the two societies have on life...
KnightlyMan23
Xper 5 Age: 37 Do you ever worry you will end up being settled for?
I guess this question applies more to those people who are into long-term relationships, rather than casual hookups and flings and fwbs and stuff. Do you worry that the person you end up with will be settling for you?...
Anonymous
(36-45) What does it mean when an ex-fling of eight months adds me on Facebook?
I had a fling with a guy for three months or so - it was very casual except I really, really liked him. We just sort of fell out of contact after several months and it just kind of fell apart for a variety of different...
Anonymous
(36-45) Hell...I Don't Even Want A Girlfriend Anymore...
My whole life, all 25 years of it, I thought I would be like most people and somehow meet that perfect girl, or even just a good enough girl to be my sweet girlfriend. Well, that never happened. And I am not even ugly or...
Anonymous
(36-45) He got back with the ex behind my back?!
Ive been having a casual fling with this guy for 2 months now. A few weeks ago I caught him texting his ex but I didn't confront him. Last week we met up at a concert however as were leaving the concert he avoided talking...
Babier
Xper 5 Age: 36 Try to get with her, or hold off and wait?
When she first started working there she didn't seem interested in me, but now it's like she always coming on to me. Every chance she gets she's up near me talking to me and trying to get me to flirt back and, well, she's...
Anonymous
(36-45) What do you think is "shallow" ?
What is your perception of what being shallow means, in terms of relationships, dating, etc. ? I was having this convo with a friend and explaining that I think the word shallow is thrown around unnecessarily by people...
Anonymous
(30-35) Guys why do you choose a casual girl over someone who wants a nice relationship?
Cut the long story short. Its happened to me and it hurt my feelings when he said I'm not looking for a relationship, just something casual. He wanted me to be his casual thing I said no. As I'm not a slut that gives it...
Shannon18
Xper 5 Age: 33 Guys or girls what do you get out of a casual fling that you don't get out of a relationship?
Guy I was seeing sed he wants to date me. We dated for a month then he got rid of me cus he wants a casual fling. He wanted that with me. I have morals so I said no. He said he needs pleasure and relationships are too...
Shannon18
Xper 5 Age: 33 Does she want to cheat on her boyfriend?
I recently met this girl who I'm into, but just want a casual fling. We don't meet up in person too often, maybe once or twice in a span of 2 weeks, but we talk on Facebook almost daily and occasionally through phone and...
TrollFace123
Xper 5 Age: 35 