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Would you forgive somebody for having an emotional affair? No sexual relation involved... Only feelings...

hi. so here is the thing, im a very outgoing confident full of myself type so i fell for this silent and broody kinda guy and we have been together since a few months and he used o adore me until he found out that i was having a fb affair with this other guy, it didn't go beyond chats but he was hurt , the other guy just kinda understood me and v had this emotional thing going on, it really broke my boyfriend who just got out of a relationship with a girl who physically cheated on him, it all happened in a few days of dating he got really serious while i wasn't , hence the fb relationship. my boyfriend is a loner but has a huge number of people who care about him but he keeps the contact to minimum but they still adore him and he is also a famous photographer and meets these gorgeous models, his instagram is filled with girls openly flirting and he talks to evryone of them, i currently dont work or study and am stuck at home as he is in another city, this is a long distance relationship. he talks to many girls and he won't stop and won't give me his passwords or anything like i did but calls me paranoid and says im asking only to satisfy my ego. i gave up so much for this guy and im scared that hel cheat on me. am i paranoid? i get jealous i pick fights. i dont know what to do! please help

As teens we'd both been through rough stuff & by no means were up to dating. I was looking for a Mr (or Ms) RightNow as was he, I didn't care we were bff's.
For 7 years we've been friends, quietly close. We would talk all night, text constantly & all day, argue like lovers. I had no idea that it even seemed like a relationship - in my head we were friends because I felt as though if he was a man he would have sought me out more diligently.
He & I dated others, talked more than with anyone else but we sort of hid the others existence, something I realize seemed more like an affair than anything-perhaps emotional I suppose.
He would offer to get me clothes, get my hair done, buy me movie tickets - all things I vehemently rejected because I am all about covering myself w/friends. He even bitched at me for rejecting a game Monday!
Later as adults he said that I should have come on to him & demanded him, I realized that being more experienced I could have but I have a firm belief men should be the initiators.
Both dated others srsly, I thought moved on & kept contact after he moved - he even said..."You are the closest thing to a true significant other I've ever had."
Whoa right?
He told me all the things he wants me to piece together, something I loathe that he openly said he thinks I should just figure out due to his puzzling insecure b. s.
Ex: He told me how he was going to see a therapist to learn to understand himself better (I had suggested such for years), also his wage-very impressive, his insurance, all things I had always mentioned I NEED in a hubby (I know he told me these things to subtly say IM MARRIAGE MATERIAL).
I've been blind but he's been so mean sometimes, friends forgive so easily though.
He's moving back, calling more, texting more, says he wants to take me away etc. Everything I refused to accept but I still talk to him.
Friendship means everything.
We've also talked about breeding... I don't know what to think, or how he truly feels.