Search Results: flirting or telling how you feel

I met a man online I was very interested in. We had a private chat where he was very forward sexually and kept video calling my phone and telling me to answer straight away even though I kept telling him I wasn't comfortable doing that. He didn't even ask first. The next morning I told him I really liked him and I could see this becoming something more. His reaction was to act confused and to change the subject. I told him I needed some space to figure out how I felt about him because I get anxious when I start to care about someone. His reaction was to tell me my thoughts and feelings were wrong and that I needed to stay in the moment and stop being anxious around him, which made me feel like he didn't care about my feelings at all (how can you demand someone stop feeling anxious?). Then he told me he was live streaming on the webcam and that I should go and watch him, even though I'd just told him I needed space. When I went to watch him he was just flirting with other girls on there. He seemed busy so I left. I then got an annoyed message from him saying he thought I would have stayed to watch him. (Weird?) A few hours went by and he asked me what I was doing. I said I had friends over watching a film. I asked him if he was on the camera tonight and he snapped back "I thought you were watching a film?" Like he was annoyed. He said he was going out to meet a "friend" I asked him if he was going to meet the girl I saw him flirting with? He said he "didn't know" and that I "didn't even know what I wanted and he didn't know where we were at" i don't think that's true because I'd told him exactly how I'd felt about him that morning. He sent me this in an audio clip so I could tell he was being a bit moody and sarcastic. My point is, am I correct in thinking this guy could have been controlling and manipulative? I find it hard to trust my own judgement sometimes. The thing is so many guys I meet are like this I don't know if this is just a normal man!

I am 24 and there is this 30 years old married man that’s keeping flirting with me in our work place. I used to be attracted to him, when we were friends , till I found out that he was married so I gave up on him but a week ago he confessed his feelings, he told me that he was madly in love with me, that he doesn’t feel anything for his wife since he saw me, that I was the only woman he is thinking about everytime and every other dumb shit of a typical fuckboy. He’s telling me that he is willing to leave his wife and his 2 young kids so that we can date if that’s what I truly want, but I don’t want to be a homewrecker, so i planned to show the texts to his wife to warn her. Is it a good idea?