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I have been with my husband for 5 years, married 3. I was born and raised in europe.. Dont want to say what country. He moved to that country when he was 6 and lived there ever since (born in USA) his mom went to jail and father bailed so he lived with grandparents from the age of 6-18 never seen his father again until the age of 20., when I went with him in 2011 and we got married. We stayed in the US for 3 months. Now we are here again, have a daughter together who is 16 months old. My mother in law keeps making comments to daughter like when she reached her chin with her tongue to get some food that was stuck and she said "you have a magical tongue baby, boys are going to love you when you grow up" and she's been making comments like that ever since we got here... Which makes me feel really disgusted. Now her husband is usually working but he is off for some months now, he does nothing but play video games. She does EVERYTHING for him. He sits on the couch and plays these stupid games and she cooks whatever he wants and then sits next to him and feeds him. When I brought my husband a TV tray to put his food on they both were like "ooooh did you see that?" And then she says "I've trained you good in just these few months" like I need to be trained. I've known their son longer than they have so it really annoys me when they make comments like that. She is always judging me whenever I do something, either for my husband or with my daughter. Tells me when I am supposed to bathe her etc. telling us that we are starving her when she eats just as often as I do (6x a day) and she sometimes lays in bed the whole day and gets mad when I don't have time to take care of my daughter and clean up after the all of us (father in-law, mother in-law, husband, daughter and me) she's always telling me stuff about their sex life and what we should try. Making comments to my husband like "I've heard you are good at some things... Without getting into details" so much more -can't fit