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Let's say you find out an earth-shattering truth about your parents, your significant other or your siblings. Your dad or mom has been having a years long affair. Your partner killed someone by accident (or was it?) and never told you. Your siblings manipulated you into thinking something that wasn't true. Would you still love them after them having done a horrible thing? Or does unconditional love have no boundaries?

We had an affair 4 years ago while on a summer course. It went very well and we remained friends, but we were both living for other countries and a relationship just didn’t come into question. In the meanwhile we both ended up having a long distance relationship with someone else, and both broke up and are now single.

Thinking of it i realized e more and more how great a match we were and that it would be cool to try and see if it can work. But we still live in different countries (though in a year ill most probably have to move where he lives for work). I contacted him a few times lately and let him understand (I believe quite clearly) that I’d like to see him. He always answered positively (I’d love to, oh it’d be so great to see you...) but hasn’t been concrete or propositive or demonstrating enough interest for me to be confident enough and make a concrete move. Like, he always likes my pictures and that’s it.

I have a week off next month and no plans, would it be too much if I “casually” spent my holidays in the region where he lives? Should I give up on this or since I’m convinced we would work out well I should insist in spite of his apparent lack of interest?