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There is this girl I have been friends with for three years now, I met her my freshman year of high school. Freshman year they changed the school zoning and I had to go to a new high school with new people in a new town, and I had to leave all of my other friends. She was also new to the school because she moved from another town. So we were both new, and she got a ton of friends instantly (she is hot). I knew some of the kids beause we got moved to the same school, I made some new friends too (not nearly as much). We talked a lot in class, but most of the time I couldn't because everyone was trying to talk to her. But she gave me this really funny nickname (she still calls me it to this day) and made everybody I know call me that as well. We would talk a lot on twitter too, sometimes with my friends. I remember one time I was at this teen club and I almost hooked up with another girl. My friends were talking about it on twitter, and she was asking: Did he really? Who was it? Really? She sounded a little jealous. She also used to hug me in class sometimes. Sophomore year, my friends kept posting on twitter that we were the class couple. And rumors that I hooked up with her (which I never said). We talked on twitter in the beginning of the year and then she stopped after awhile. Soon She stopped talking to me (we talked on occasion), and she got a boyfriend. Then towards the end of the year she talked to me again (They broke up). Junior year she talked to me again, whenever she would see me in the hallway she would say wats up (my name) my nigga? and we would fist bump or something. The second semester she was in one of my classes and she sat next to another one of her friends ( a guy). He was the funny kid in class and always made her laugh. She did sit next to me instead of him on a couple occasions. She gave me her phone number, I never had it cause we just talked on twitter.

The title says it all. So my perception of a party is not just like a club full of mostly strangers, where you just drink away, get drunk, smoke, hook up, and have sex. That seems too ghetto and of bad influence, and more for young High Schoolers who wanna look cool. My perception is more or less the same I had as a child. With just a place where you hang out of friends, and have music, dancing, games, decorations, maybe balloons, food, sweets, and drinks. And make the music louder, and have some alcohol, so that it doesn't seem TOO childish. But not enough alcohol to get wasted or drunk. And just in between friends, not hundreds of random strangers. Anyways, that's my perception of a party. The idea of a party going from completely innocent as a child, to just a complete drinking fest as an adult, just sounds messed up to me. So why not something more or less in the middle? I only went to one of the "popular sterotypical drinking parties" when I was depressed once, but that was it. And I didn't like it very much. And you get the point. So anyone have more or less the same perception of a party as me? Probably nobody, I'm probably just weird and will get a landslide of "no's", but let's give it a shot to see.