Search Results: instant attraction

How can you tell when there is an instant attraction between you and someone else?

Katelyn1214

Xper 3 Age: 35

Instant attraction?

I met this guy at a local gym. It was an instant attraction. I'm not shy, so I told him that I thought he was cute. He was very flattered and caught off guard and told me he thought I was cute too. Now every time I go to...

intrique4life

Xper 5 Age: 45

Dating

Why does it feel so hard to date outside of your ethnic group/race?

I mean, when it comes to Asian girls (especially Chinese girls), since I'm Asian (Chinese) myself, I get instant attraction and attention from them. I just get the vibe from them, that it's almost natural. I mean, I could...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Need help, classic situation but not with all the classic symptoms

I am in the classic fallen for a girl with a serious boyfriend situation. Met her a couple months ago, and seemed to be an instant attraction from both sides. I get all the flirting symptoms from her, touching, eye...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

How to tell whether it's going to be serious?

OK, we met on a blind date, instant attraction, two dates so far, he calls me nice names, wants to see me, picks up the bill, affectionate, he wants to be intimate, coming on quick and strong. I'm confused, I wanna know...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationships

Is she using me?

Met this girl 7-8 months ago, and there seemed to be this instant attraction. I was immediately into her and over the first couple times seeing each other, I got every non-verbal cue in the book that she was into me. I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

What To Ask On A First Date

What you say during your first date will make or break your potential relationship. When ask the right first date questions you're increasing your chances of attracting her and going on future dates. In essence the...

RelationshipXpert

Xper 5 Age: 51

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Guy's Behavior

When a guy doesn't respond to an e-mail (that says everything you're feeling), should you assume it's over?

I dated a guy for close to 8 months. He wasn't my ideal guy.. but I admit there was definitely an instant attraction/connection. We went out at least 3 times a week.. and talked/texted on a daily basis (always quick to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Broke up with him 2 years ago, still can't get over him?

I met this guy over 21/2 years ago and it was an instant attraction. We dated for about 5 months and we were in love, but our communication wasn't the best so he broke up with me. I was devastated when he started dating...

angel2020

Xper 3 Age: 35

Relationships

Is he interested or not? Guys please help me out.

Met this older guy and had some instant chemistry. It was obvious we had serious sexual tension but I told him I'm not the casual sex kind of girl and that I really wanted to just get to know him. He agreed to let things...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

We love each other, his father died... he broke up with me because he needs to figure things out.

We were together for 4 years, instant attraction and have been together since the day we met. Been through so much together, absolutely love each other more than anything. Speak on the phone 10x a day, spend lots of time...

brokenheart24

Xper 5 Age: 41

Relationships

What's up with this guy...is he just crazy? (Guys' opinions would be nice!)

There's this guy that I've known for a few years now & things started out on a positive note. I saw him as more of a potential friend & cool kinda guy despite being several years older than me. No instant attraction or...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

What does his indifference mean? Does he still care or is he stringing me along?

I started dating a guy last year and after 2 months I broke up with him because he was recently separated from his wife and I felt that while he was over her, he was not over the break up of his marriage. There was an...

lookingforanswers123

Xper 5 Age: 51

Guy's Behavior

Is this guy shy or not interested in me? I'm confused as hell.

-so we used to be friends, met randomly, became familiar and there was instant attraction -things got awkward, and we played mind games, we both stopped talking -we still ran into each other, and a few months later we...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

How can I tell if he really likes me?

Okay, so it was Vegas... Long story, but you know when you meet someone, lose track of them, then run into them again in some random place in time, and everything that occurs just seems right, exciting, and meant to be?...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationships

Love at first sight?

Has anyone met someone that the had an instant attraction for and thought within a 2 week period that they were in love?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

For girls: Does that instant initial attraction have to be there, and what causes it?

I've read many times here that women can almost instantly tell whether or not they are attracted to a guy they meet. It makes it sound like it is purely physical attraction (which I know is important). I'm short for my...

Poseidon17

Xper 6 Age: 42

Flirting

I think I came on too strong, but only because he was too.

I have been seeing this guy for a few weeks now. He is an old ex of my best friend, and they are still friends. One night me and my best friend went to visit this guy at his house. The chemistry between us was instant. I...

bringmethewinner

Xper 5 Age: 34

Relationships

MEN ONLY (love your advice) It's been 3 years, he won't commit, why do you think?

I've been seeing this man now off and on for 3 years, when we met he had just left a 12 year marriage with two kids(12 and 11) the year before, and filed for divorce. I too had just left my husband and filed for divorce....

Herstory1

Xper 5 Age: 50

Flirting

Instant attraction - what do I do?

Well I was wandering around on campus waiting for class to start and I went to the info desk to grab a magazine and I really wasn't paying attention I was in my own little world and the guy at the desk hands me the...

Anonymous

(36-45)