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I have a male coworker whom was close to me and something happened and we were distant for a while. During the awkward period, i tried reaching out to him but he was behaving distant still but there was an occasion he teased me and I behaved normally and later he made long eye contact with me without smiling even when I smile to him.

I started reaching out to him again and after I told him he’s my favorite person, he looked at me when I’m speaking to a coworker near him and when I caught him looking, he looked nervous and immediately turn away.

This week, he behaves differently towards me. He started talking more with me and was again standing close to me when we talk and yesterday, we went lunch together and he was playing and teasing me, at one point we were playfully putting our side arms next to each other and pushing each other. He hold me by my shoulder once and playfully tapped my cap.

Are these signs of him liking me more than a coworker and friend?

This male coworker of mine is kinda weird, he can tease me in the morning and I just replied him normally and he started staring at me without smiling later that day.

And when I started to talk more with him and even mentioned that he’s my favorite person, he started to avoid making eye contact with me and once I was talking to a female coworker while facing him, he turned around to look at me and when I make eye contact with him, he had a nervous look and quickly turn away.

He has been like avoiding making eye contacts after I started flirting with him.

He wasn’t like this in the past whenever we are together, we were close and we always have eye contacts and he used to tilt his head and smile when he look at me.

I do not understand why the sudden change in his behavior?

Did he fall in love with me?

Met a guy at work about 3 months ago (Blake). we became fast friends The attraction was there soon after Next week he invited me over to watch his favorite show, we had some drinks, cuddled & fell asleep
We’re both straightforward people & extremely comfortable talking about anything Once we stayed up talking all night about ourselves that ended with us kissing
We both expressed how we’ve been hurt in the past & don’t want relationships Few days later, he got tipsy & called me over He was upset & told me how he thought I would eventually hurt him I set him straight & we fell asleep
We got closer, jokes & flirting of us sleeping together began I’m 25 and virgin; came to realize long ago that life isn’t fairytale but knew I wanted to lose it with someone I cared deeply for & cared as much for me. Blake was that person. I brought it up to him. He asked why him. I told him I liked him pointing out our mutual attraction & us being friends already. He didn’t text me for a few days but acted normal at work, but was more touchy. So I figured, he’s thinking hard about it.
he gave his answer, yes. I went to his house nervous but determined. He was outside sitting & told me to join him. He came straight out & said he was worried how I would be after & if I was sure I didn’t want to wait for someone else. I reiterated that neither one of us wanted a relationship. Long story short. We went for it. He took care of me. No fairytale but no horror story either.
Everything after that changed. We’re touching & flirting with each other all day everyday at work, over text & after work. He began to get protective (especially around our other male coworker), holding my hand, calling me babe. We slept together a few more times. Each time more emotional. He got drunk another night & told me “I’m friend zoned, you friend zoned me”.
Truth, I like him & open to a relationship with him. But I tend to believe people when they say something, respect their decisions. So lay it out to him or not?