Search Results: too close or too distant

Why is he like this?

So there is this guy that always gives me high fives every time we see each other at school. I always caught him looking at me (its either he looks away or keeps looking at me) and my friends also noticed it too. He is...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Flirting

Does he like me or nah?

So my guy friend and I got really close from about January - April, but then we went a bit distant and then now we are somewhat close again. It honestly seemed like we both liked each other. Like he get's weird about...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I'm so confused?

I'm in high school and I befriended a boy in my class. I'd try not to get too close to him but he initiated conversations and came up to me in the hallway and always was really over friendly with me. My friends in class...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Guys, what does it mean when he says "I respect her too much"?

We have been close friends the past few months with a guy from school (studying phd together). We don't have anything going on beyond platonic friendship because he stays at a distance on purpose - but we have been...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Am I obsessed with him?

I wake up in the morning... or like in the middle of the night and i just get these memories of him right as i wake up and i instantly think about how he would do all these things that were so obvious that he liked me......

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why is my ex acting like this?

Me and my ex where very close. In late December of last year, we got into a discussion. I constantly asked her if she kept contacting me cause of pitty and every time she said no, that she contacted me cause she wanted...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, Do I have a chance of getting back with my ex?

Me and my ex where very close. In late December of last year, we got into a discussion. After it I felt very bad, time passed and I one day around late February ask her if she had another man. She gets angry and calls me...

Italian3

Xper 4 Age: 33

How can I help my friend who's feeling really down?

So I have this friend I'm really close with, we met online and texted very often but never meet up, he was fine, except for the fact that he was really negative and emotional sometimes, and I don't know how to help him. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, Can someone explain to me the female logic or at least help me comprehend my ex's way of acting?

I'm a guy who is 100% lost when reading a women's body language, their gestures etc. Me and my ex where very close. In late December of last year, we got into a discussion. After it I felt very bad, time passed and I one...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Did I get played? How should I handle this if she ever approaches me at work?

So here goes, I have this girl at my job thats liked me since I started working there. I didn't think much of her at the time but we became friends pretty fast. Well a guy ends up asking her out but still she stayed close...

blatcha

Xper 5 Age: 37

What did I do wrong?

So I've been talking to my crush on and off for about a year but it never really meant anything and recently we started talking again but it actually meant something - he'd message me first and it would be a cute on going...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Give up on our friendship?

I feel like a close friend hell a best friend is being distant, she has a boyfriend kinda and he doesn't like us chillin or talking I guess but i know she cares for him a lot but she hardly responds to my messages anymore...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I give up on our friendship?

I feel like a close friend hell a best friend is being distant, she has a boyfriend kinda (lardass) and he doesn't like us chillin or talking I guess but i know she cares for him a lot but she hardly responds to my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Guys, Never had a guy look at me this way, went out danced made out, but he lives away from the city. Said he wants to keep in touch but doesn't?

The guy was insanely attractive and fit. like I've never see a guy light up around me. He invited me to a party and I went. I was drunk and so was he a bit. So we started making out like crazy, it was hot. one of his...

Lovet26374

Xper 4 Age: 35

Enough is enough. When should I walk away?

I have a guy friend that I like as more than a friend. We're not very close, more like casual friends. After I developed feelings for him I found out that he was in a serious relationship so I backed off. From then on, we...

Anonymous

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