Search Results: being with someone that you don't love
Do you think that if someone pushes you away it ALWAYS means that they do not love you?
I was pushed away many times by family and friends. I associated it mostly with them being disiniterested in me and not loving me as much as I loved them but it didn't change me until my first boyfriend did it. He...
What is your outlook of getting into a relationship?
For me to get into a committed relationship I look at the big picture , i dont get myself into a relationship without giving my all. My trust, my loyality through good times and bad times i only can give what i expect to...
Is something wrong with me (mentally)?
I'm pretty sure im bipolar and it runs on my moms side on of the faimly along with other things. I've also been traumatized by so much such as being alone, homeless, starved, beaten, and watching someone get shot to death...
I constantly lied to my boyfriend, how to fix it?
So.. let's say my boyfriend broke my trust so bad and from there i had trust issue with whatever i found him suspiciously doing.. i would constantly nag when i found something i didn't like him doing and of course it...
Guys, I'm a black girl who likes white guys but I've had trouble finding someone who sees love and not just a sex object in me. Suggestions?
I take things super slow and dont elude to anything sexual in any fashion. I keep running into being fetishized which is disheartening. l know I'm an attractive woman, but that leads to men trying to bed me instead of...
What would you do in this scenario?
So, picture this. Your out in the dating world. Honestly you have too much difficulty finding that right person no matter how hard you try. But then someone new comes along. He/she has the most amazing looks,...
Should I marry my boyfriend?
I have been dating my boyfriend for 10 months now. I love the guy and he wants to get married. But there are two major reasons why I'm not sure if I should or want to. 1st off my boyfriend has a temper. It was worse...
How do I fix my emotional unavailability?
Its not that I dont care about anybody else, but for my own sake I would never be willing to put myself in a vulnerable space again. I think that the honey moon phase is the only bit of happiness I can get out of a...
Muslim, I was engaged 10 years ago to my fathers friend son (he is 20), I fell in love with another guy and cheated on him (didnt have s**) ?
English isn't my first language and all this i will tell you has nothing to do with islam but it has a lot to do with culture and traditions. i am 16. my family still believe in our culture and traditions, when they...
Attire for a semi formal to formal event?
My daughter is in a leadership club at school and there's a company that's sponsoring a "purple ball" for all students (middle to high school) and their parents. It's being held at a high school and the invitation says...
How am I supposed to meet somebody who wants more than the status of being "taken"?
Its hard for a girl like me. a lot of people are dating to move on to the next thing or dating to "upgrade" from their ex, or sleeping with people as some type of ego boost. People are in relationships because they are...
What does a guy think of you if he is insulted by you not accepting his apology?
I have heard "baby Im sorry" "please forgive me" "I was wrong" "I shouldn't have done/said that" and "I need you" a few times. It wasn't a common occurance and I didn't hear apologies as often as I think I deserved them,...
Does my boyfriend of 2 years still love me?
we haven't had the smoothest relationship and I've accused him of lots of stuff as i have anxiety and a lot of insecurites with myself to do with relationships, i never feel like i deserve a good thing of which i have in...
How many times do you forgive someone before you're an idiot?
Some of you have seen my posts abouty husband being unfaithful, losing all self esteem, etc. I decided to completely 100% trust him and try and low and behold a female friend on facebook messaged me and informs me my...
I feel that I have some type of deep emotional imbalance from my breakup? How can I get over it?
Any help would be appreciated. I deeply love and care for my ex I really think i could have had a future with her. However, she had some very intense issues and was very damaged. Through a lot of ups and downs I stayed...
Partner is overly competitive and defensive... help?
Hey.. I've been with my partner for 5 years and he has always been competitive and defensive but it’s really starting to take a toll on my mental health. I’m great at communicating and always say how I feel but he...
If a guy tells his friends that he loves a girl but its not what he wants, what exactly does that mean?
You're probably thinking "Well dumbass, it means he doesn't want it". I understand that. But what exactly couls cause a man to love a woman without him actually wanting to be with her? My ex told his buddy that he loved...
How long do you hold on to something?
My first “love” or as i later realized, infatuation... he was the brother of my best friend. He seemed flirty and i found myself mad “in love” with him around like 2002. We had sleepovers due to me befriending his sis,...
I dont know whats best for me?
My friends keep saying “you need to be alone for a while... for months.” My (ex) boyfriend says “we both need to be alone a while. Im focused on my car and school and my video games. If we get back together, by or before...
Is it possible to stop being attention seeker?
- I let guys flirt with me even tho I dont like them. - I go on dates with them just because Im bored. - I went on many dates but NEVER had sex. - Most of the times I dont even let them kiss me. - I was in a...
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