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My ex boyfriend and I are still seeing each other in private and he still tells me that he loves me - we have 14 months of history togther- we’ve both done a lot together and I waited for him when he was in jail for 3 months and looked after his mom as well...
he cuddles me at night in his sleep and tells me he still loves me and kisses me and always asks me to come over and asks me to come as soon as I can so he can have more time with me...

he tells me that this other woman that he’s seeing stresses him out and she hits him and is mean and hurtful at times towards him... they fight a lot...

he tells me he he wants to get back together with me and work on things with me and that he’s thinking of dumping this other woman...

does he seem to wanna get back together with me?

So, I have a friend (20 F) who is dating the friend (26 M) of my ex (21 M). She has revealed to me that he has told their group of friends that the reason for our break up is because I was going out to clubs every night and that it was affecting his father's health (I was staying with his parents at the time time, while he was at university). That is obviously not the truth, and she said that he is saying this to gain sympathy from his friends (who were on my side after the break up). Truthfully, he cheated on me while we were long-distance and I found out from another friend. He never owned up to it and still continues to deny it, even though he began dating a new girl right after dumping me. Now, I have not talked to him since our break up a year ago but hearing that he is spreading this lie to cover up for his cheating really irritates me because he is making it look like I am the one at fault. If you were in this situation what would you do? Would you confront him about lying about you or would you just let it go?

He dumped me out of the blue about a month ago. Obviously I was hurt and confused. During the breakup, he kept saying how he really really wants to be friends. We haven't had any contact since that night, except when I dropped off his stuff I left a letter explaining my confusion in his sciency terms "when something at work doesn't work you wouldn't throw it away, you'd inquire, analyze, collaborate" etc. The end of the letter was a P. S. saying I'm not ready to be friends, but I'd be open to chat when we're both ready for some open and honest communication.

He received that 2 weeks ago... I'm wondering if he interpreted the letter as I'll be in touch with him? I'm out of town for another week, but I really do want to sit down and chat with him when I'm back. Should I text him when I'm back? If so, what should I say?

His reason for dumping me was "I just never developed the feelings I thought I would" which I think is total bullshit. He's been saying I love you for months and months. The timing of the breakup was when he was super stressed with family and work, and I want to see if... now that things have settled down he would reconsider being together.