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If you knew that your close female friend was traumatized sexually and that she was scared about having her first consensual time with a romantic partner because its too much stress to add the romantic element on top of the ptsd while naked and vulnerable and scared as fuck.. would you be willing to walk her through it and be there for her emotionally more than anything during, before, and after fucking her? Would you do it if you saw her from a purely platonic perspective, or would you have to have an element of romantic leaning type feelings for her? Because that's what I'm going through right now. And I want to make sure I'm not confused. Because he said that he's attracted to me but that he's not looking for a relationship right now and we don't have romantic chemistry. But then he also checks up on me constantly and we talk every day and he's been there for me through an abusive partner and he's been there for me during everything regarding my obtain spazzing out about the rape. When we first met we hooked up but i was nervous cuz it was going to be my first time and he stopped immediately and instead went down on me a little before kissing me and snuggling me a bit and turning on the tv and didn't try anything with me the rest of the night. So I'm just wondering if every guy would be willing to fuck his close girl friend and be there for her in such an observational, overly invested, extremely intimate, defenseless type of way that is vulnerable as fuck a thousand times more vulnerable than just basic animalistic sex. Could you partake in something that severe without having interest in the girl? Is it safe to say it is platonic as hell, or should I be concerned that he might have some level of hidden genuine interest in me of a romantic type leaning form? Thoughts? Please take the poll and explain your answer below. Thank you.

So my ex and I broke up in December, two weeks we got back together only for me to find out two days later he was cheating on me with someone he met the same night we got back together. Then he came back to me when that was over, then back to her. Then back to me. He chased one of his ex’s while he was with me, and has been after countless other girls. We’ve always remained in each other’s lives as my emotional support to him and we were sexual and have even discussed getting back together. On Thursday, we exchanged sexy text messages and he talked about wanting me back. Later that night, he went on a date with some tinder girl he’d met earlier in the week and as of last night they’re in a relationship. Yes, that fast. Ours was too. Except we lasted a year.
The thing is, my ex and I shouldn’t have lasted a year. He was emotionally abisive, called me names, made me feel worthless, often told me I was nothing to him and I never would be. He suffers from bipolar. Called his ex a whore for no reason. And now he’s with some other girl. And I don’t think it’s right that he started things when things were still going on with me. He blocked me on Friday; the day after our convo. And now part of me wants him to chase me, just so I can show him what he’s done to me. And the other part knows this poor girl should never experience what I have. Should I warn her? I have screenshots of every abusive message, every sext.