Search Results: fiance left me

Had a heart to heart with a friend at work. I told him he shouldn't still be with his fiance because she cheated on him before (a while back) and once a cheater always a cheater. I said it's likely she will do it again and I don't want him to go through that again. The conversation before that was pretty nice, not volatile at all. But once I said that statement his eyes were starting to water. (Pretty fast) He made me leave (in a nice way) and shut the door and I guess cried for a minute, then came out all sad and left for a while, then eventually came back. He was shocked that I said that, but I had to. I was very straight forward. Also keep in mind we have always had feelings for one another, though once she came back in the picture he still treated me the same, just wouldn't even ever mention her to me. I found out they were back together because a mutual friend of mine saw them together one day. When I asked him about it, he wouldn't go in detail. And avoided all conversations about her to me. I'm very giving, selfless and nice. I just had to tell him that and I got that kind of reaction. Why would he react that way?

So I've known this guy for 6 years, we met initially it started out with everything that it shouldn't have but an innocent kiss and then we both just stayed friends, and I got a boyfriend he got a girlfriend. Then, I got a new boyfriend and he dumped his girlfriend or something, and he didn't like my boyfriend and I caught him smelling me once, like, my neck. Getting too close, he didn't deny it (did later tho) when I accused him & my mutual friends were really not cool with him hanging around because he was all over me and I never really noticed. Then throughout the years we evolved into more of a best friend relationship so I thought, but he never dated anyone again despite being very attractive. When I got engaged he picked up and moved & recently blew me off when he was supposed to visit. He didn't even call to say "Sorry I can't visit." He was pretty sure that I was going to stop being friends with him, & he was right I was going to tell him to his face potentially depending on the situation, I couldn't end a friendship over the phone, in text or email that was that long & personal. He had yelled at me on my birthday & called me a spiteful b word, then claimed he didn't even know it was my birthday even though I mentioned it in a countdown to him every day that week because I was turning 25 so it was a big deal. He apologized, got drunk the next day sent sexy pics with like here's a present bday girl ;) or something like that. I thought people do stupid things they don't mean when they're drunk but according to studies I read online, people mean that stuff. He told me I was the closest thing to romantic love he ever had, he left the STATE right after I told him I got engaged, asked why didn't -I- the woman pursue him? Like he was so special. Then he blocked my fiance on Facebook but didn't block me, we usually make up by now & I really have forgiven him but the question is -can this be fixed-? If he subconsciously 'loves' me it's kinder to just stop?