Search Results: guy flaked out

How does being ignored by girls impact you?

A man that I've considered a friend ( we were never super close and to be honest I did like him in a more intimate way ) has started ignoring me for the second time. I have no idea why. I didn't say or do anything to...

Smitten79

Xper 6 Age: 46

Guy's Behavior

Help.. boy problems?

Hey so i am a female and my crush is a few years older than me. We met at a public place and he kept staring at me, and he was too scared to talk to me so he had his friend go up to me and ask for my number. I gave it to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Could anxiety or ADHD make you forget a date?

Bit of background. Was hooking up with this guy/seeing him casually. Had spent a whole weekend together. Then the following Sat. Sun morning he texts me to see if wanted to meet that day. We agree on a time but he falls...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Having feelings for a friend. Do I take action or not?

I recently started to have an attraction to a friend of mine. She's an amazing girl and for some reason we have went from work friends to closer. I haven't tried anything simply because I'm not sure if she would go for...

unattached

Xper 6 Age: 36

Dating

Why Do Girls Flake On Me A lot?

So I've been using online dating sites to set up dates with girls but lately I've been flaked on by about 5+ girls in a row before the first date. I'll typically get the girl's number and text her to set up a time and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Is there a website I can use to just find sex/FWB from women?

I tried the usual so called dating sites like Okcupid, POF or Tinder etc but none of them work for the majority of guys unless he's tall and model looking. They either don't reply to my messages, flake on meet ups or want...

BasilBrushSays

Xper 4 Age: 33

Dating

Why do guys keep looking at your online dating profile when not interested?

Background - was dating a guy for a few weeks. Arranged to meet up but he rescheduled then flaked/went silent on me. I figure not interested so moved on. Now he looks at my online dating profile, Why would he bother...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Younger Women Intimidated By Intellect?

I'm 29 years old and I haven't had anything serious in 3 years. Just stuff that was short lived. Women usually flake. Older women always approach me but younger women are usually stone walls. I hang around older women....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Not sure what his motives are?

So I've been talking to this guy just under 6 months. We went on only one date back in February. The date went well, about 3 hours drinks, food, good convo and a nice makeout. He always texts and we even FaceTime but...

AlphaFemale1109

Xper 4 Age: 40

Guy's Behavior

Why would you double flake guys?

When I search for flaking articles online they seem to be about people flaking on first meetings, or cancelling date plans at the last minute. This guy I have been hooking up with - we spent a whole weekend together...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Asks me out then flakes. Wtf?

We were talking for about a month and he asked me out for drinks. We pick a date, time and location. I get all pretty and every thing, we confirm plans. I'm sitting there at the appointed time, fifteen minutes later he's...

navychick2006

Xper 6 Age: 42

Dating

Crush that flaked on me multiple times all of a sudden wants to "hang out"?

Short summary: I've had a crush on this girl since high school, we recently have started talking and I've tried to ask her out 4 times without luck. The first time I asked her out on Friday that week. She responded...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Can I assume he likes me?

Context: So this guy right.. We kinda chatted, we kissed, and then eventually slept together over the course of like a couple months. So we never had 'the talk' cause i didn't know how things post sleeping together worked...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

What does it mean if you ask a guy to hang out and he flakes?

This guy used to invite me to hang out with him and his friends. This week, I asked them to hang out, and they said it would be fun. It hasn't happened yet, but what does it mean if they decide that they are too busy? I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Make him chase me again?

Met this guy last summer, went on trips with him. After we had sex, he totally disappeared. After that, he'd contact me and tries to set up plans but totally flakes. I'm not holding garages. I would like him to chase me...

cxz09080

Xper 4 Age: 32

Flirting

He doesn't want to date me but he doesn't want to let me go?

I've been talking to this guy since march every single day basically and he always says I'm beautiful and really pretty and puts hints that he wants to kiss me and do stuff. I made a joke with him saying I loved him, it...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Should I keep trying?

Me and this guy have been talking for 5 months, we work together. We didn't have sex until after a month of friendship where he told me that he wasn't over his ex (though they broke up 2 years ago) and he wanted to have...

kimpossible_

Xper 2 Age: 35

Dating

Should I give up or should I just keep trying?

kimpossible_

Xper 2 Age: 35

Dating

I am leaving him alone but he will not stop contacting me?

I met this guy last summer and went on trips with him. He was fun and met my friends. I didn't meet his but that is not the point. We stopped dating after a couple of months. After that, he constantly came back into my...

cxz09080

Xper 4 Age: 32

Girl's Behavior

How can I turn her back to how it was before?

I've met this girl about 6 months ago, through common friends and we instantly hit it off and started seeing each other. I did a lot of mistakes with her, flaked on her 5 times in 3 days, pushed her away/refused to...

Anonymous

(30-35)