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There’s a shy guy at work that only works part time because he’s also going to school. He doesn’t really talk to many people at work. We both give each other mixed signals. I overheard him about a month ago telling another guy at work that he likes me (I think) and they were both looking at me. He holds doors open for me even when I’m far away, he helps take my section at work but not other girls, he’s teased me in the past when other people weren’t around, he goes out of his way to get things for me, he sits near me at lunch (1 seat apart) or hell sometimes he will take my seat and I’ll go that was my seat and he will start laughing and go oh I thought it was mine. When it’s the two of us talking it’s kinda awkward lol. Oh yesterday I teased him because he went to grab a pile of plates to stack and I grabbed them from him and said what’s the password and his face got as red as a tomato and then I gave him the stack. He also made a mess all over the counter and sink with bubbles and I was like laughing and was like do you always make a mess doing this and he’s like yes. But sometimes we will avoid each other and not even look at each other or walk fast away from each other or act super nervous around each other. Or I don't know lol. It’s off and on. He’s never had a girlfriend either or really showed an interest in girls according to my coworkers and they are surprised. They thought he was an asexual weirdo. I tried messaging him on twitter last night but he hasn’t been online. I don’t know what to make of this. He also suggested that I should come into work on Sunday even though I’m not scheduled (he is) and work won’t pay me overtime. Sometimes we leave work together and sometimes he leaves before me. We’ve been doing this since September. He hasn’t asked me out ( probably because he’s super busy with school or scared too or idk) weird. Hmm. I don't know

Ok so this girl started working at my job in August. She’s a quick learner and a good employee. Never had any problems with her. She recently told me that she likes another coworker. She said he goes out of his way to do stuff for her and teases her (when nobody is around) and is really nice to her. (which is weird because he’s never shown any interest in anybody ever, always thought he was an asexual weirdo lol, he’s worked here for 4 years and has never been in a relationship not even in high school). he is extremely shy and awkward. The girl is shy too but more outgoing then him. They are both shy and awkward together. I will say his performance at work has been bad this past month. He knows what he’s supposed to do but acts like he doesn’t. It’s like his bodies there but he’s not. He works tomorrow and the girl doesn't. They both work together all day Wednesday. Apparently the girl said they both give mixed signals or something like that constantly. I wonder if I should tell him that she has a crush on him. (Maybe it would move them forward) everyone at work thinks it’s adorable that the girl gets so embarrassed and says don’t tell him LOL. They’ve been like this for the past month.