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I've been working at this restaurant for about 6 months. Shortly after I started my boyfriend and I broke up. We had been dating officially 3 months, seeing eachother for 6. We never became sexually intimate, I have had sex before, but I regretted it. I wanted to be sure this time and was glad I waited , because he showed his true colors.

Anyways, we broke up and I started hanging out with people from work a lot since I had free time. I became friends with a few and one late night made the mistake of accepting the offer to go to Shari's and talk alone with my male coworker. I had no idea what he was getting at, but we talked in depth, one-on-one like never before, he seemed genuine. We ended up going back to my place and we made out. Short story is it happened again and he pushed for sex and I don't know what the hell I was thinking, but I just wanted to be held and loved so after a while I consented.

The next day, I cried. I felt awful, feel awful. I can't stop thinking about how freaking stupid I was. I've still been nice to him, but have kindly rejected all his attempts to initiate such happening again.

Recently the coworker you could say I've admired the most while working there has been showing interest in me. We started texting, he invited me to hang out w/him and his friends which was a blast, then we went on a few dates. He just told me he really likes me, and I know I don't want him to find out from the grapevine, so I want to tell him myself. Complete honesty is my policy, but I don't want to hurt him over something that meant nothing. I completely regret it, so deeply.

Do you think I should tell him? What's the best way? Would you still be able to date a coworker who had had sex with another coworker of yours?

I feel so awful about the whole situation and maybe losing something that shows so much potential for wonderfulness is what I deserve.