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Like she doesn't revolve her life around you and is into her career, hobbies, has a social life, etc.. and doesn't always pick you first. She doesn't get back to you right away (through text) but is still always there for you when you need her. Would that be ideal? Or do you like when a girl gives you lots of attention?

I'm kind of torn right now between wanting to shower my boyfriend in affection and spacing things out. I care about him a lot but I can tell he doesn't want my attention all the time. He likes his space. Is that most guys or just him?

My bf and I broke up a few months ago and got back together. Things were not the same when we got back together, he seemed very careless. He wouldn't get mad at anything, or happy, or sad, he just was emotionless. He tends to ignore my messages usually. I'll ask how his day was, or how school was, and he won't respond. When I ask him why he ignores my messages he lies and says he didn't see them, when my phone tells me he did. He never wants to go out for dinner or anything. He just wants to stay home and "watch movies". I confronted him last week and wrote him an email about how I was feeling. I told him i felt like he was emotionally unavailable, and that I felt like he didn't really care to invest himself into our relationship. I asked him how he felt, and that if he wasn't looking for a serious relationship with me to just say so. I told him I was hurt that he cancelled plans with me and ignores my messages. I told him I was confused because whenever I try to give him space, he begs me to come back into his life. He hasn't responded at all. I sent this message to him on Thursday and its Tuesday now. Is he taking time to think or is he ignoring me? I know sometimes guys need some time to think about heavy stuff like this, but is it normal for a guy to take this long to get his thoughts together? Why can't he just spit out how he feels?

This guy is 1 yr older, tall, handsome. Our fams have known each other for a while and are good friends.

I've baked him sweets before and he doesn't stop talking about how well I bake & how much he loves my cookies, etc.

It's hard to talk to him sometimes if our fams are eating dinner together & everyone talks, but he tries to incorporate me in the convo by asking me personally a question about something. I'm not a big talker, but when I do talk, he usually always laughs at my jokes and I try to smile and laugh back with him too. I'm not sure if he likes me or not. We don't really sit next to each other much at dinners and don't hang out outside of the family.

He has hugged me really long and tight before when I made him his favorite dessert. He has also come by my side to hug me (2 times) but not a real hug, he just kinda hovers over the side of me (I'm a shortly!) and puts his arm towards the middle of my back and runs it down very little, while we're standing. (He touches near the waist/middle only, not my lower back or butt or anything). The 1st time I slithered away bc I guess I wanted to show him that I was unavailable (?) and it was a knee-jerk reaction bc I totally like him so I don't know. I guess I wanted to give him the cold shoulder a bit so he knew I didn't just want to be looked at as a friend. The 2nd time, I responded by just staying there being comfortable. I didn't clench up but I'm also not super desperate around him bc I don't know how he feels about me. Recently I kissed his cheek to greet him instead of just a plain hug and it was easier bc he was sitting down.

I've never been in a serious relationship and he knows I'm a virgin. I think he's been a player/ big flirt in the past. He usually goes for girls who are much taller with 0 curves and are kinda ditzy. I'm a short, curvy bombshell who also has a 3.9 GPA in college so far, so I'm just a little thrown off by that as well. Hope you can give me your input!