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Here's my attempt at putting a long story into 2000 characters. Back freshman year in high school (Im a college freshman now) I had the biggest crush on this girl and I felt like she really liked me too until I fucked up royally. I basically told her to get the rod out of her ass because she was being a bitch. So my chances with her went from good to big old goose egg in a matter of one Facebook conversation. In sophomore year I had her for a class and she ignored me all year. Just a little side note I was an annoying little shit up until Junior year when I realized I had to stop being so annoying. In junior year we had a class and we sat next to each other and this year she was a lot more talkative to me. One day she even took my phone and put her phone number in it. Like Im serious, I didn't ask for it she just took my phone and put her phone number in. To sum up that year she never really wanted to hang out. So senior year was not to spicy but to put it short we didn't have a class together but we did still see each other once in a while at school and would exchange "hellos" but at the end of the year she did stop me in the hallway to take some selfies before we graduated. My question to y'all is that is it worth it to message her and try to hang out with her? I say this because I think the reason she never wanted to hang out and why she ignored me was because I was very annoying and very fat and ugly. Now I know you not supposed to date someone just for their looks but if you say that looks dont factor at all into the relationship game than your just silly because your not gonna date ugly betty just because she's got a good personality, looks play some role in it and Im telling you I was fat and ugly. I've lost 50 pounds so far and I've grown a decent beard and its kept very finely groomed. I've also stopped my annoying ways and I'm a very different person from 4 years ago. So would texting her and asking to meet up be a good idea and would it come with success?

Me and my ex have been broken up for a while now. (1 1/2 months or so) and things have been complicated. Anyways last time I talked to her things were going well until I talked about another girl having a crush on me and at that point she got mad and hung up on me. She said that she doesn't want me to contact her anymore saying she doesn't wanna hear about my relationship status or what I've been up to (no contact for a couple weeks before that). Anyways this morning she texted me asking me if I want my stuff back. Do you see this as a good or bad sign? On one hand it can be seen as her having an excuse to see me but on the other she could have completely moved on. What do you think? by the way she broke up with me.