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I meet my man named W in Feb 2012 i was 22 he was 27 turning 28 then we broke up in sep 2012 and then in Nov 2012 started seeing F also from NYC who was 28 & W knew about this relationship with F from start to finish in March 2014. F lied & cheated talking to other girls on all social sites. even after W & i brokeup W would message me saying i love u miss u bla bla. Both relationship were serious and both was all about marriage not bf gf type of thing. I had sex with W once I was a virgin at the time. then I & F we also had it & I bleed again had sex every weekend but gradually we started meeting once a month due to his $$ issuess. back to W story he moved to huston texas because of $$ aswell while we was together in May 2012 he is now in arm force guard holds weapons (diff kind of guns) making money as well as selling cars when he was here in NYC he worked a $10 pr hr wage at a cellphone store. We meet every Sunday 1 hr drive away. He wanted us to have a great living so he moved but wanted us to be together I knew it won't work but we made it happen but then I was not getting attention after him moving 2 months later we broke but the he told me he needs a girl for my friend he has businesses and educated me a good girl I gave him my friends number she is a nice girl but then I find out he was talking & started relationship with her behind me & then after a week I find this out not from him but my friend. he laughed & said i was a mistake. My girl felt bad & cut off with him & he also cut off but he did not delete her # because now when we started talking again in May 2014 he never called my friend who he was talking to behind me after that day. Now two weeks ago after we brokeup YES AGAIN he calls her again 3 years later msgs me with this "Why would u call someone a bitch just because I never got marry with u. because we broke up because I was talking to ur friend than we fall for each other?

Okay. I have been in a relationship for 7 years. With one separation for almost a year and one for 6 months. I am 24 and he is 26. We met when I was 17 and he was 19. We had a toxic relationship when we were younger but were each others best friends and so in love. We also have always lived together since about a month into the relationship. He did a lot of very fishy things for a long time in our relationship. I never actually caught him up physically cheating. Just things like flirting and going to far with girls in texting and online. I also cheated on him in the beginning, which he knows. Well, we grew up a bit, had a daughter, but the trust issues were still there from the past. We separated for 6 months. He started dating someone else, and was completely faithful and good to her. I was shocked and jealous and kinda proud of him. Well, we worked through things, we are adults now, with a child, new mentalities, and still love each other. But he is an extremely private person, always has been with everyone. I hate this. I can't stop trying to snoop on him. I saw him be faithful to someone else. I trust that he's faithful to me. I have snooped through his facebook, email, texts, etc. and have found nothing worth even fighting about. He is getting sick of me doing this. I just am so afraid for him or anyone else to "get over" on me or think they're slipping something by me. Even though since we've been back together I have found nothing that serious he still keeps all of his things locked up tight, passwords, locks, etc. Is it possible that he is just a private person? Because I feel like anyone who does that is hiding something.

Also; there was a while where he agreed to keep no locks on our phones. Until I took the snooping too far. Then the locks went back on.

Girls, do you snoop? If you don't, how do you keep yourself from doing it?

Guys, are any of you very private people even though you don't have nething to hide?