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I liked a guy at work but I was too busy to date... only I did not decide this until after we began dating. I thought as we only dated a week he did not heed much of an explanation. It seemed like I would be thinking he cares more than he does to offer him one, so I just stopped talking to him. He asked what happen and I said I thought it was to hectic for both of us. I felt bad about it as time went on bc it was shallow and I don’t like people treating me that way I should have been nicer but I also still want to be with him so I feel really stupid like I view it.

I think I fell in love with him ( we knew each other before) and that might be partly why I waned to get out of it. Also I really feel like I can be able to try properly this time IF he gave me another chance.

We are still friends but he’s tense around me and kind of ignores me around others but will seek me out- that’s very confusing. He also recently gave me a book of poem he wrote for me when we were dating. He framed it in a crafted wooden frame he made himself and engraved it and looked for me to give it , but then played it off like he just wanted to get rid of it and he thought I might want it.

I was confused by this too. I have been after that to spend time with him alone to see if there is a chance he still likes me and to see if we can have another opportunity.

He will never say yes he wants to hang out or no he doesn’t. He is either kind or annoyed when I ask but he’s always nice again quickly if he does get upset.

I KNOW I messed up and I totally understand if he’s like no fuck off. I just don’t like all this not knowing. It is true I never actually told him WHY I want to hang out. Do you think it will make a difference?

I don’t want to make a big deal by apologizing bc he might not really care and then I’d be embarrassed.

I think I should leave the past behind and just ask him out now and let him reject me if that’s how he feels?

I just want to move forward with or without him.

I am 19 years old and i dress modestly (show no skin at all wheather it be arms, legs ect) when i was three, burning water fell on my left leg leaving 3rd degree scars on my top middle part of my inner thigh starting just above my knee to where girl shorts end on a thigh. the backside of the bottomhalf of leg is also has burnt scars all over it and the outerside of ankle to (only one side of my ankle the outer part is scarred). This is only ons leg. My other leg is completely scar free along with the rest of my body. The scars are a bit raised and the color blends with my natural skin color (brown skin, brown scars) i want the honest truth, don't sugar coat don't feel bad for me. I want the realistic truth please, so I can make a decision. I don't want to live on a lie or fairy tail but work with what I got. If a man wants to marry me but then I tell him I have 3rd degree scars as I have told you or described will he then take back his proposal. What do guys think of girls with burn scars on one leg. Would they ever be attracted to them. Everyone tells me I am beautiful, those I know and strangers. A lot of men have crushes on me. But these people besides my family do not know i have burn scars as i wear long clothing covering my leg (maxi dress, maxi skirt, jeans ect) if a guy find out will he be no longer attracted to me? Like what if we haven't known each other personally yet but he liked my apperence thought I was pretty then I told him i have a burn scar on my left leg? What would most guys do. Please give me the honest truth do not try to make me feel better because honestly it would end up hurting me. Would a guy mind? How important is it? If a man proprosed to me should i tell them about my scars before we get married or does it not matter. Or will a guy who knows me personally and is already in love with me will be the only one who would except my scars. Can a guy fall in love with a girl with burnt scars on 1 leg from childhood? Keep it 100.