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I meet my man named W in Feb 2012 i was 22 he was 27 turning 28 then we broke up in sep 2012 and then in Nov 2012 started seeing F also from NYC who was 28 & W knew about this relationship with F from start to finish in March 2014. F lied & cheated talking to other girls on all social sites. even after W & i brokeup W would message me saying i love u miss u bla bla. Both relationship were serious and both was all about marriage not bf gf type of thing. I had sex with W once I was a virgin at the time. then I & F we also had it & I bleed again had sex every weekend but gradually we started meeting once a month due to his $$ issuess. back to W story he moved to huston texas because of $$ aswell while we was together in May 2012 he is now in arm force guard holds weapons (diff kind of guns) making money as well as selling cars when he was here in NYC he worked a $10 pr hr wage at a cellphone store. We meet every Sunday 1 hr drive away. He wanted us to have a great living so he moved but wanted us to be together I knew it won't work but we made it happen but then I was not getting attention after him moving 2 months later we broke but the he told me he needs a girl for my friend he has businesses and educated me a good girl I gave him my friends number she is a nice girl but then I find out he was talking & started relationship with her behind me & then after a week I find this out not from him but my friend. he laughed & said i was a mistake. My girl felt bad & cut off with him & he also cut off but he did not delete her # because now when we started talking again in May 2014 he never called my friend who he was talking to behind me after that day. Now two weeks ago after we brokeup YES AGAIN he calls her again 3 years later msgs me with this "Why would u call someone a bitch just because I never got marry with u. because we broke up because I was talking to ur friend than we fall for each other?

As teens we'd both been through rough stuff & by no means were up to dating. I was looking for a Mr (or Ms) RightNow as was he, I didn't care we were bff's.
For 7 years we've been friends, quietly close. We would talk all night, text constantly & all day, argue like lovers. I had no idea that it even seemed like a relationship - in my head we were friends because I felt as though if he was a man he would have sought me out more diligently.
He & I dated others, talked more than with anyone else but we sort of hid the others existence, something I realize seemed more like an affair than anything-perhaps emotional I suppose.
He would offer to get me clothes, get my hair done, buy me movie tickets - all things I vehemently rejected because I am all about covering myself w/friends. He even bitched at me for rejecting a game Monday!
Later as adults he said that I should have come on to him & demanded him, I realized that being more experienced I could have but I have a firm belief men should be the initiators.
Both dated others srsly, I thought moved on & kept contact after he moved - he even said..."You are the closest thing to a true significant other I've ever had."
Whoa right?
He told me all the things he wants me to piece together, something I loathe that he openly said he thinks I should just figure out due to his puzzling insecure b. s.
Ex: He told me how he was going to see a therapist to learn to understand himself better (I had suggested such for years), also his wage-very impressive, his insurance, all things I had always mentioned I NEED in a hubby (I know he told me these things to subtly say IM MARRIAGE MATERIAL).
I've been blind but he's been so mean sometimes, friends forgive so easily though.
He's moving back, calling more, texting more, says he wants to take me away etc. Everything I refused to accept but I still talk to him.
Friendship means everything.
We've also talked about breeding... I don't know what to think, or how he truly feels.

I have just graduated high school and have never been in a relationship before, or even really had feeling for someone until i met Riley. I am fairly shy around boys and i dont usually know what to say but with Riley it comes naturally. There is always something to talk about and he gives me butterflies every time i think about him. I found out he had a crush on me about a month ago, and i only looked at him as a friend. When my friends told me about his crush i looked at him a completley different way and started to develop feelings. I personally am the kind of girl who has never gone past kissing. I believe sex is for marriage and you should really get to know them before you date them. Me and Riley have only hung out in group settings (parties, grad, group hangouts). There was one party we went to together where we talked all night, went for a long walk and even slept together in the back of his truck. (seriously we slept, and did not have sex). He told my friends he wanted to kiss me but he didn't because he respected me (which i love). We have been texting a lot lately and saw each other again at a party the following weekend. We talked and hung out for most of it and i put cake on his face as a joke. He turned around and kissed me and got cake all over my face. (It was a long peck, nothing special but so adorable). Then i didn't really see him after that for a while, but when it was time for me to leave he walked me to my car and we made out for like 6 seconds. Again nothing special, but i thought everything about it made me melt. We have been talking a lot and have plans to see each other and i really think this could go somewhere. Okay so here's what the thing is!! He is moving in 6 weeks to another province because of work. I mean i knew this when i got into it but i couldnt help it and now im kinda stuck. I dont know wheather or not i should continue seeing him because i dont want to fall too hard and get my heart broken