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Do you think girls are ultimately to blame for failed relationships?

there are a lot of bitter people nowadays. admittedly myself included. why? you see young women, so outspoken about how "guys suck" and how they can "never find a good man" and even how some girls are just happy to be...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Am I over him or not?

Anonymous

(36-45)

I thought I was over this guy, I really should be it's been 3 years since we've dated. But, I recently had a dream with him and I fooling around. The strange things was I was/am not

I thought I was over this guy, I really should be it's been 3 years since we've dated. But, I recently had a dream with him and I fooling around. The strange things was I was/am not really attracted to him. I became attracted to him, because of the way he treated me. I was starting to fall for him, which is why I asked him to be my boyfriend. He said no because he didn't seeing too far with us and honestly I didn't really eithier.

We only dated a few months, but it was the longest things I've ever had. I was upset when we ended things, he wasn't officially my boyfriend, but we were "exclusive." I didn't really know this at the time, but there was one summer that I was getting over him and did some stupid stuff. I think I was kinda hoping he'd stop me. I did also thinnk he was gonna realized he made a mistake and ask me to get back together with him. I thought this, because we were hanging out just about every single day and if I didn't see him he'd text or call me. (Part of the reason we hungout everyday was because we were on our college campus and there weren't many people around, but also we were just close) One night I was sitting on the couch and he was laying down and he put his head on my lap and said, " I miss this" and I said, "I miss this too." Probably a month later there were a few days that I hadn't heard from him. Then I foundout on Facebook that he got a girl friend. I was just about heart broken and cried like crazy.

I didn't hear from him for a while which makes sense, but sucked. Then during the school year we started hanging out some more. But we'd pretty much only hangout during the week or weekends his girlfriend didn't come up. We were still pretty close though, my friend would tease that I was pretty much his 2nd girlfriend. I thought that his relationship might not last too long if they didn't have sex. He takes sex pretty seriously so I knew that if that happened they would date for a while. One night we were drinking and he was kinda bragging to his guy friends about having sex with his girlfriend. I was kinda upset and drank a lot. I also didn't realize how many shots were in my glass. Anyway, I ended up making out with his roommate that night.I pretty much thought I was over him after that point.

A couple years later I did something kinda mean, but I think it was to push him away. I tried to be friends with his girlfriend but she was so shy and kinda snobby so I didn't end up becoming friends with her. Then I thought she said some rude comments (which my friend ended up telling me that it wasn't true) I told him that I didn't like her and we talked about it and was still trying to act civil towards her.

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Society & Politics

Flatmate issues...! Please help!!

My flatmate has started seeing a new girl. She is there EVERY night of the week and is super loud, not just sex loud but she also has a foghorn voice and constantly wakes me up. She has been here for three weeks...

Redheadedlady

Xper 5 Age: 40

Dating

How can I get answers while showing him that I'm angry, yet still turn him on?

This guy has been on and off.. we've been going at whatever this is since June. I've liked him for a year now. He started showing real interest in me in June right after a breakup. We talked for about a month and even set...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I'm very heart broken. I just want to talk to him. We haven't talked about this at all. We ended it online :(

Basically I hooked up with my closest guy friend in September. We hooked up for like two weeks (no sex, just a lot of making out and stuff and sleeping together) There came a point where I guess I was impatient. He wasn't...

ellebelle61

Xper 5 Age: 32

Is it acceptable to date / "be seeing" 2 people at once?

billy_young

Xper 7 Age: 35

I mean is it OK to have 2 or more NON-serious relationships at the same time? Say you've been on a few dates with one person, and you meet someone else who you like, is it OK to start

I mean is it OK to have 2 or more NON-serious relationships at the same time? Say you've been on a few dates with one person, and you meet someone else who you like, is it OK to start dating them too and decide which one you like most after you've been on a few dates with each of them? Or should you just make your choice and stick with it? Also, what if you're sleeping with both of them?

Please do the poll then if you have the time or if you have anything extra to say comment below.

*** Optional extra: why this applies to me ***

I met a girl (Jess) out clubbing 3 weeks ago & we've been on 2 dates and going out again soon. She's nice and I quite like her, but I'm not 100% convinced she's "the one". I don't want to end it yet though because I do like her and I want to get to know her more so I can decide if I really like her or not. We've not slept together yet, but I think it's likely to happen in the next couple of weeks.

Last night I went out clubbing for a friend's birthday, and one of his friends was a really cute girl (Kate) who looked more "my type of girl". We made eye contact a few times while dancing so I briefly introduced myself and we got dancing. After a bit, I went in for the kiss, and we kissed for about 30 secs. Then we danced away from the rest of the group for a few mins, then kissed for 5-10 mins. She was a very "enthusiastic" kisser and I got a bit carried away, so we were starting to stroke each others' backs and feel bums etc. Jess had been in the back of my mind all this time. As we started to "grope" a bit more, I realized that the only way this was going to end was with us going back to one of our houses and probably having sex. It had gone too far for us just to go back to dancing with everyone and gone on a date later. When I realized this, I decided that it wouldn't be fair on Jess if I slept with Kate. So I had 3 options:

1. take Kate home and end it with Jess the next day.

2. ditch Kate - just go home on my own and pretend nothing happened.

3. forget my morals and take Kate back to my place. If Kate was interested I'd date both of them for a while, if not then I'd just carry on dating Jess.

What would you have done at this point? Which choice would you have made? Or would you just have not got into that situation at all by not dancing with "Kate"?

I chose option 2. It sucked. I didn't want to just walk away and leave her wondering what she'd done wrong, so I took her outside where it was quieter and I told her "I'm really sorry. I'm actually kind of seeing someone at the minute so... you know... I'm really sorry for leading you on." She looked a bit hurt but said she was cool with it. I said she was REALLY nice and I was very sorry, and went home. I felt such a d!ckhead. I hate that I upset her, it was so harsh of me :(

Plus, I now think maybe I should have just invited Kate back to mine and maybe we could have just chatted. She seemed a really nice girl and I completely blew it with her.

Opinions much appreciated

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Relationships

Whats wrong with me?

Now I know that sounds gay, but I honestly am physically attracted to girls, I'd LOVE to have a relationship right now. I have dated 4 girls since my last long term relationship (ended two years ago), but I just have a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why isn't he affectionate anymore?

My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now. Like most couples, we were very passionate for the first 5months or so. He always told me how beautiful he thought I was, always touching me, or showing affection...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

My sister is dating my cousin, is it OK for me to feel uncomfortable?

I'm 21, my sister is 25 and my cousin is 23. I know my cousin has liked my sister for a long time (in fact, quite a few of our cousins have liked my sister) but yesterday he wanted to talk to me about this and he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why did this guy act like this and say the things he said?!

Anonymous

(36-45)

First of all if this is "too much to read" don't bother and move to a shorter question because details need to be provided! Last year I had somewhat of a wild spurt after ending

First of all if this is "too much to read" don't bother and move to a shorter question because details need to be provided!

Last year I had somewhat of a wild spurt after ending things with my friends with benefits guy. I didn't want to go without sex so I just moved on to the next, and then next and then next...all of the last three were one night stands unfortunately. I wanted them to be my new fb but it just didn't work out like that and I'm not complaining but the 3rd guy really did me wrong. I admit I made a mistake because at the time he was a co-worker and knew he was a man whore and had even been told he never slept with a girl more than once BUT I did it anyway because I wanted it.

I of course made him use a condom since I knew he was a man whore and while he wasn't huge he wasn't tiny in size. I would say he was around average or just below average because I did feel him and he obviously felt me because it didn't last longer than 5 minutes I'd say. I didn't even fully get off before he did which sucks but that was a while ago and I don't care about that now. We both agreed before we did anything that no one at work should know about it and we wouldn't discuss it.

About a month later at work I was informed that some of the guys were talking about how they'd like to "do me" in front of him and he took it upon himself to tell them that we had sex and it was terrible and basically that "it" was huge and he didn't feel a thing along with some other stuff that was very demeaning to me. (BTW: Most of the people I worked with were men)

Obviously it's not the case because he got off pretty quick and I felt him AND no one has ever complained and I haven't been with a ton of guys BUT why did he do that? Why did he try to make me look so bad in front of people I worked with when he is supposed to be an adult and we agreed that no one should know?! I know that it started when the guys said they'd like to do me but I never did anything bad to him and in the end the truth got stretched even further and when I confronted him about it he denied EVERYTHING!

Guys...please help explain this to me! My lesson has been learned for sure though!

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Can somebody offer me a few words of hope? I'm feeling a bit low…

I'm not sure what happened, but in my past I had a lot of charm. A lot of girls liked me and I don't really know why but I dated a lot more girls. In the past few years however, I feel I have completely lost this charm I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Why can't I ever be happy in life? Why do I always get screwed over?

I am 26 years old and never had a healthy relationship. After all this time I finally run into a nice guy that treats me with respect, dosn't rush me for sex, is proud to be with me, loves giving me attention, caring,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Why have relationships today become so one sided (girls and guys)?

i Haven't had a girl in 7 years and it makes me think maybe I and many girls and guys I have talked to I'm 28 never had sex..held a girl..kissed... but to go on with that I hear all the time 90% of girls hate...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it more worth it to be alone these days then with some one?

ok the reason I ask this is I was on the beach the other day and I told my friend "you see that" he said "ya" it was 4 girls walking around this ONE guy and they were all seaming to try and fight for his attention..he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I get a divorce?

I know it sounds totally lame to ask this question on a site like this, but it would help to get some unbiased opinions. As you can probably tell, I'm confused. I am 27. I had a whirlwind romance with this girl (I'm...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are we dating? I can't tell and I don't want to assume we're not and screw things up....

It started off innocently enough. I hadn't seen an old male acquaintance and we decided to hang out. We decided to hang out like we used to a few years ago, and we hung out at my place and decided to watch some movies....

Anonymous

(36-45)

I am starting to doubt myself and it is killing my self esteem... am I just different?

No matter who I meet I am always the "special" one.. please don't take any of this to be cocky because I am really just trying to explain: I am...smart (both in school and also just knowing a whole lot of sh*t..but I...

ncsquirll99

Xper 6 Age: 33

What to think of what my husband has said drunk and sober?

What to think of what my husband has said drunk and sober? I've been married to my 2nd husband 13yrs. He's an only child & his dad died when he was 17 at the age he is now(39). He was w/his ex girlfriend for 9yrs. He...

suzyq67

Xper 5 Age: 58