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My guy friend of 3 years has always been super attentive to me, sweet, devoted like a puppy. He is always as close to me as he can get and touches my upper arm, shoulders, lower back, lets his hand rest too long on mine if he hands me st, holds eye contact forever, has played with my hair, notices EVERY little thing about my appearance, has fed me off his spoon after he'd used it, presses his arms/thighs into mine when we sit side by side and he's said he loves me, just not romantically. We tease each other a LOT and he calls me "girl"/"woman" and pretends like he's mad. He wanted to buy me a gift for "putting up with" him. He told me recently that I've been his other fave person (besides gf) for two yrs. he's been with her 18 mos.

We've both been taken the whole time we've been friends but we have become emotionally intimate and it feels like more than just friends. We messaged and texted ALL summer and talked about everything under the sun, deep stuff, silly jokes, how he's bored with his gf and wants to be free this year to "kindle new flames". He's asked me about sexual things I might be into, like bdsm, hook ups with friends, 3ways, pd sex, but the racier the q, the more he plays it off like jk, wasn't REALLY asking! But he's told me he likes me boobs and complains that gf has a boys body. He's asked me to brush stuff off his butt and never moves away if I put my hand on his thigh or play his hair/stroke his face. He's shown every sign of liking me but won't make a move. He says he hates cheaters but aren't we already cheating emotionally? He said he couldn't take the shame of kissing another girl while he has a gf. He said he doesn't want to hurt her by breaking up bc she is so in love with him, much more than he is w/her. I'm getting sick of his wallowing in misery when he could just end it if he really is as unsatisfied as he says. I told him today that I think it's unrealistic to think one person could meet all your needs/desires. What should I do?

Okay so i'll try to make this quick. my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 1/2 years. it's been very rocky. he cheated on me once and i chose to forgive him but i mean after that there's been situations with other women like texting but I'm not sure if flirting. anyway. i don't trust him and he's in vegas with his cousin that i don't trust him around. well, a couple weeks ago i found a text from a girl from school in his phone talking about going to a lake with them two, his cousin and friends. i found it and got pissed and he made excuses and said he was inviting her for his cousin, who also had a gf. anyway he wasn't planning on going. last week i found a text to his friend saying he was going with her to vegas and i got pissed and he said he just wanted to seem cool. and i told him to prove he isn't going by messaging the girl and seeing what she said. fast forward to today, he told me repeatedly that he wasn't going to meet up with her, and that she knows he has a gf. well, i just found out he lied. a lot. he met up with her because she got him and his friend into a pool party and supposedly thats it. but this chick, when he posts something of me on his instagram, she does not like it. and she blocked me on instagram and made her Twitter private after i told my bf i saw it. i mean if he didn't lie about meeting up with her just for that, then, i would have been mad but not as mad as i am now. he told me all day he wasn't around her and then i go on somebody's instagram thatcs that is her friend and is with her and and there my boyfriend is in the background with his friends. so i caught him. hes' done so much shady things starting last year. i have no trust in him. he's lied so many times. i love him a lot but come on. oh did i mention i messaged the girl to see whats going on and she didn't even reply. well yeh I don't know what to do. i tried trusting him and found out he was lying.

I have a crush on this guy... I told him how I felt and he didn't respond for months...

So I started dating my boyfriend...

My crush responds to my text and ask for my number so we can talk... He tells me he has been way depressed.. He invited me to come visit his country (he lives long distance) brought up old memories of him and I... Even admitted he had a connection with me too...told me to add his friends..Asked me about my love life... And I told him I was dating someone...and then my crush said we will stay in touch through Facebook, bye sweetie"

I added him on my Facebook and it says that I am "in a relationship"

He hasn't talked to me in weeks...

So I finally messages him asking him how he was and he didn't reply for almost two days...

I deleted my Facebook account because I realize this whole thing isn't loyal to my boyfriend... And I'm sick of being ignored by my crush... I would never cheat on my boyfriend... I guess I just wanted to see if my crush cared about me... And would call me so we could catch up as friends at least...