Search Results: clueless guys

Why do I have bad luck with men?

Hi, I'm sort of new to dating. I'm a good student, I know a lot about politics and philosophy, I have all my main life goals set, and I also know I am pretty. Before you say I'm not and that I just think I am, please know...

meanmammoth

Xper 4 Age: 25

Tell me about female sexuality and competitiveness?

Just wondering. I have a hard time coming to terms with how women are valued for looks. Its hard because I was raised to value my talents over looks and how 'pretty' i am which is a 7 without make up and a 9 with make up...

juststrollin

Explorer Age: 31

Is he not into me or is he just clueless?

We text, talk at basketball games, we’ve FaceTimed and we went to the mall together. We knew each other because we’re in the same friend group but we started talking at a basketball game when he was sitting by himself....

Anonymous

(18-24)

How to get over a crush over your guy best friend?

I've known him for a while now and I started liking him about a few months back. I've stared to look at some signs that he reciprocates but its all mixed signals. I let time pass to see what would happen but nothing seems...

b_stlouis01

Xper 4 Age: 35

Do girls normally display random signs of affection to their "guy" friends?

By "random signs of affection" I sort of mean hugging, lying/sitting down on your lap, resting their head on you, that sort of thing. I've just had a friend consistently do all of those and I feel like she's sending mixed...

Blue6324

Xper 4 Age: 25

HELP!!! What do I get the guy I've just started dating for Valentine's day?

We've been friends for about a year and a half now, and just started dating last night. What should I get him? Just a card? A card and a box of chocolates? Something more? I'm clueless when it comes to dudes!

Anonymous

(36-45)

Did this girl like me all along? Was I just clueless?

3 years ago, I was working at my school's bookstore. We have 3 campus locations and I was assigned to work at a different store for one shift. This girl, let's call her Adriyana, only worked at this store. My friend,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are relationships worth it?

I'm a guy who never had a girlfriend or an actual relationship in his entire life. I find them useless because I can't really find someone that can actually get along with me and say "hey has fate made us this way. I...

Hhhhhhhhha

Xper 3 Age: 46

How do I keep my guy from falling out of love with me?

I know I cannot stop him But what can I do to be able to make it not my fault What is my part? How can I try? by the way I’m not losing a guy I’m just trying to figure out how to keep love once I am lucky enough to get...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Interaction between guys?

Kind of an odd question since I’m a guy, but why do guys pay each other on the butt and say “good job”? I see this mostly during sporting events, and also in school, but I don’t get it. I’ve noticed it more and more after...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How much attention is enough with women?

I dated in the past and i have went out with girls so iam not completley clueless... thing is girls find me very attractive, iam 6'2 and very good looking to a lot of women, even the hot ones dont hide it... but i still...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Guys, What does this mean?

I asked a guy if he has a girlfriend he simply said no. So I asked him if he wanted one he said "not really but I'd consider it". Than I didn't answer him for about a half hour than he texted me "what are you thinking?"...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I dont understand why girls that like me ignore me when they are with someone else?

Iam not clueless i have dated and talked to dozens of girls, some even approached me, but it always surprises me when this particular issue happens... a lot of girls at college show interest in me, and by interest i mean...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why did my Ex block me on Snapchat and unblock me 5 hours later?

I know it's hard for anyone to say but I'm clueless so, guys, why would you block you ex girl and add her back a few hours later?

Anonymous

(25-29)

I’m super clueless?

How would i know if a guy is into me?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

If guys want to persue, what can a girl do to show interest?

I'm clueless

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Girls, Any advice for a guy who has low self-esteem?

I know it's really unattractive to hear but if I can be honest I struggle with my self-esteem. Maybe objectively speaking I'm doing fine. Maybe I look alright and talk fine and have a good personality but I can't shake...

Tothepowerof27

Xper 2 Age: 29

3 months later. Relationship talk important at this point?

I have been on 5 dates with this guy I met online and it has been a little over 3 months that we are in each other's lives. We've been calling each other almost daily and getting a sense of what we are into. We share a...

neworkoutmd

Xper 4 Age: 35