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Okay well me and this guy don’t talk that much anymore but use to. We see each other every week due to us having a project from our internership. We use to hook up and said we wanted to be together but too many problems happenedd and I acted crazy and he was annoying and we drifted apart and he’s talking to new girl. however I secretly love him. I figured out his dad was sick so I sent him a saying I was sorry about his dad if he needed anyone to talkto I’d be there. He then sent me a text back 2 hours later saying thanks. He usually doesn’t answer my texts after we got into an argument. I’ve sent him loving texts before and he didn’t say anything when we were talking ( he’s very emotionally unavailable) but he said thanks to this one. Is that an open invitation to start talking to him or was he just being polite.

Well this guy and me have been hooking up he’s always giving mixed signals telling me he wants to be with me and me saying I do to. Him basically saying he loved me. He has serious trust issues and emotionally unavailable af. But despite that I see he’s struggling hard. He likes me I’m sure he does but I guess not enough. We work together md he decide to invite one of the girls he talks to visit him at work even though I didn’t know he talked to other girls. And he was smiling at me like it was funny. He always tries to make me jealous. So I went up to him after that and started getting emotional and said if he didn’t like me he didn’t have to lie and I started crying he called after my name and I ran in the bathroom. Me he came vigorously knocking on the door all concerned. Then I just was kinda mean to him and h said we aren’t going out which I cmt be mad he talks to her. That broke my heart because I swore he said he wanted to date me. He tried getting my attention but I didn’t give it to him. How should I act when I see him tomorrow? I mean icant be too mad because he’s right he isn’t my boyfriend but to do it in my face is mean.

Me and this guy keep going back and forth. We started as friends with benefits and hooking up. We then started admitting our feelings for each other. I said everything first because he is very emotionally unavailable and can’t express his feelings. He then stated he wanted to be with me. However he would only tell me these things drunk and told me not to tell him what he said sober. If I bought it up he’d get withdrawn and ignore me. But he’d keep hinting at love in an odd way and stuff so I told him I had feelings for him (he said feelings means love) I ask if he has them back ( which means love) and he says I don't know. he won’t ever openly say how he feels. I then get frustrated so next time I see him I nag him kinda about how he doesn’t like me. He says I ask the same questions however he’s never straightforward. I then asked him f he had feelings for me ( which he SAID It meant love to him) he told me he LIKED ME BEFORe never told me he had feelings but he kept saying I already told u. Is that his way of saying he does love me or is he playing?