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We were friends before, but then a hot kiss happened after a long night out with common friends.

Though our friends always said he seemed to like me a lot (I didn't use to think about him THAT way), he quickly told me he wasn't looking for anything serious.

But after that day we always kept in touch, almost daily, sometimes all day long and 90% of the times because he reaches me out.

After that first kiss (a year ago) we dated a bit (no strings attached, but also no sex), then we kind of naturally stopped seeing each other.

We kept talking though...and dirty talking too.

After he moved in to my street (it was the cheaper option after he was forced to move out of his previous home) I knew things were about to get...messier again.

First we would hang out on my place. He tried to kiss me once but I said no (don't want to mess our friendship, I said and he agreed).

After a few just-friends lunches or visits to a movie theatre the attraction was unbearable and we started fooling around again.

We keep being up-to-date daily with each other lives. He tells me if he's away at his town, daily asks how I'm doing, texts by night

(not only when we could be together, as a booty call).

Also...i still want to take things slow. I'd be the perfect FWB..except he's not getting it ALL as a benefit.

Everything he does would be a typical sign he LIKES me, but he keeps saying this is just for fun (at least he said it right before we got back to be involved).

Why bother waiting for me to be ready when he can have other girls? (not a virgin by the way, and not doing it to make him suffer, just because I want to be a 100% comfortable with this situation).

I do believe in him. Should I just get away now? I don't think I'm in love but I'm so used to him, so-to-speak, and we for sure are attracted to each other,

I know I'll fall for him one of this days...

I have a friend I have known since senior year when we were introduced by some mutual friends. We have always been really flirty with each other. This past six months or so we have started hooking up around our crazy schedules. It's kinda weird since we have known each other for so long.

Lately he has been talking about maybe bringing his kid to come see the restaurant where I work. That would be normal but its a like hour away. Plus while I have met the kid when it was younger I haven't since it's old enough to remember people.

Also since we have started fooling around we talk all the time (OK all the time for us). But I can never get him to actual schedule hanging out or other activities since he apparently prefers to do it all spur of the moment. But he has said that he wants us to continue hooking up. So am I the girl that he relieves stress with or could it be more? (Not that I mind I am a very willing participant even if I am the booty call since I got needs too)

What I mean is, like a guy paying on a date(the first few), opening the door for a women(normal doors and car doors), not trying to sleep with her, pulling out her chair for her, and just generally respecting her. And her respecting him.

And the girls and guys not sleeping with each other till marriage, or fooling around(besides making out).

Why do people act like these things are so horrible and out dated nowadays? Where I live even though they are becoming much less common a lot of guys(at least the ones in church) are still raised to do these things(as are girls) and it just bothers me that common courtesy and values are just not around as much these days.

So seriously, what's so wrong with these things?