Search Results: not meeting boyfriend''s family

Summary about this woman:

- she’s in her early 30s and I’m in my early 20s

- we were part of the same group of 6-8 friends

- she started dating a guy of the group, and I other one

- I know for a fact she’s very controlling to the boyfriend who is in love with her (my friend) and extremely demeaning/manipulative. None of my business, I don’t interfere, but It made me not like her.

- she stopped hanging out with my boyfriend after he started dating me (it’s well known in our group she doesn’t like me for some reason Idk)

Now the latest and what made me ask this question, she is starting to try and create problems where there arent:

- asked my mom if she knows my boyfriend and I are moving in together (we are not and it got my conservative mom very worried and to fight with me)

- keeps asking my boyfriend if he really likes me or if I really like him etc, or insisting his family wouldn't like me

- there are a million other little examples of her trying to create arguments between us, basically

Our other friends think she is either jealous of mine her her bf’s past friendship, or she’s into my boyfriend. Well it doesn’t matter.

My question is. We will surely keep meeting as we live nearby and hang out at the same places.

In my place, what would you do?

So I've been dating my boyfriend for nearly two years. He's from a different state, but we live in California.
He has a female friend, who he's known since age 16. He's 26 now. When they were 16, they hooked up ONCE.
I understand this was years ago, but I still feel weird about it. He says they talked about how they were happy they could still be friends, that he'd love to introduce us as we'd get along, and he went and visited her and her young son a couple months back when he went home to see family. I got low key really upset and jealous and told him. then when he came back, she texted him and he quickly hid his phone, admitting he thought I'd be mad she texted him at all, even though it was a happy st Patrick's day text. I'd always said it was weird he wanted us to meet, so he rarely brought her up. Did he hide that because I was jealous? And should I tell him i don't want them hanging out again without me meeting her or am I crazy? He says there are absolutely no feelings or attraction.