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We met in January in class. We were on separate teams at the time and had to get feedback from other teams, and we happened to sit next to him.

2 weeks later, we had to choose new partners for our 2nd game. He ran over to me, literally, when he saw someone else ask to be my partner. So we partnered up for the game.

We ended up working on the game for 3 weeks, nothing special, It was hard to get together since he lives on campus and I commute to college. The weekend before it was due I asked if I could stay the night to finish. He was totally into the idea and even gave me his bed to sleep in, he slept on the floor.

More instances:
He worries about me constantly, but only said it once under his breath.
He tries to teach me things he is into constantly. (Tennis, LoL, Magic, etc.)
He let me stay over for a week straight because of personal issues on my part.
When we were sitting with our friends he only asked me to go see a movie, not all of us.
He tries to hang out with me one on one most times, or if we hang out in a group he sits next to me or right across from me.
While we don't text a lot, when its been a few days and I text him, even if its just to say hi, he gets excited in his replies.
He actually stops playing LoL to answer my calls.(haha)
He gets irritated when I bring up other guys.
He has told me he prefers taller girls (I'm 5'10)

The reason why I am lost is, I am not good a reading signs, I am only good at giving them, and I cannot tell since I personally thinks he likes another girl, but it could just be in my head.

While he does act nice around them, I get a vibe he is nervous around me. The one thing we haven't done is break the touch barrier. We hug yes, and he has let me lay my head on his lap, but as far as casual touching, its not there like how he is with other girls.

He is very very sweet and that's why I'm worried I'm misreading his signals.

Is he just a friend? Or is there more?

Hello! Now, I'm the kind of person that likes consulting stuff with others before taking big decisions. And who better to consult than the lovely people of the internet. And... it is ironically fitting for the "thing" I am desperately trying to figure out.

As the title might have given out, I have been in a "relationship" for a little over a year (who am I kidding, almost two friggin years!?!) with a guy that lives on the other side of the planet. And besides the obvious uneasiness of not being able to see each other, I feel.. empty. I love him to pieces but I feel like he doesn't return my feelings completely, if not at all. But the thing is, everytime I would break up with him, he would always come back and ask for another chance. You would think that after each breakup he would learn from his mistakes (Ugh. And I am a very tolerant person, and I don't usually care about other people's mistakes... but this guy just grinds my gears!*mutters*), but noooooo...

They got worse.

He never shows me his true feelings, yet he sometimes talks so sweet to me that I have to pinch myself to see if it's only a dream. Or he would be really cold, and ignore me or talk with curt replies. He is just so confusing... I have been having a really rough time ever since I got in this relationship, but I can't make myself forget about him. It hurts when I'm with him and have him send me mixed signals, but it hurts even more when he's not there.

Probably not the best explanation ever, but I am kind of super embarrassed already as it is for sharing this on here. Imagine if I had to put all of the cheesy and sad and pervy *cough* details that might give you a better insight of everything that has happened up until now.

Well, there you have it. I got no freaking clue of what I should do next.. Thanks for reading and sorry for the rant!

So I have an ex friends with benefits . We were really close before we started hooking up, we hung out almost every weekend for a few months. He claimed I was getting too attached, but I had just ended a four year relationship with another guy previous to hooking up with this guy. Granted I wasn't in a great place to be seeing anyone and wasn't really myself, but he ended it. When I would see him, he would act like nothing had happened even though we ended things on bad terms. Right after he ended it, he started publicly dating this girl with the same first and middle name as me, as if him seeing another girl didn't piss me off enough. It made me feel insecure because he never wanted to be public with me and said he wasn't looking for a relationship but he jumped into one after ending things. When we went to college, he didn't text me but religiously checked my snapchat stories and liked my Instagram posts. He snap chatted me a few random times during the year but I didn't respond. Right before Christmas break he texted me asking to hang out and saying that he missed me. I didn't know if he was still together with his ex at the time but he confirmed that they weren't. He didn't even use her name, he just called her "my ex". As I was naturally curious, i took him up on his offer but also brought one of my best friends with me who was also close with him. I get in the car and within seconds he's talking about his sex stories from school! But then he went to say that I should go and visit him at college! I didn't hear anything from him after that because he had a short break but recently he sent me a snapchat of him and another girl! I know he is a jerk and I would never hook up with him again but his behavior is annoying and I don't know what his deal is! Is he interested in being friends with benefits again, does he want to be friends or is he trying to make me jealous? Thanks for reading! :)

Basically, I live on the same floor as him and have kind of avoided the issue until now because it's the end of the year and if he wasn't interested, it would have been uncomfortable. However, this guy is just generally really nice and I'm having a hard time determining whether he likes me, or is just friendly.
As of this semester, we have a lecture together and he always sits next to me. After class, we walk back to the dorms together and eat lunch (sometimes alone, sometimes a mutual friend happens to be there). He always seems interested in what I have to say, and remembers small things about me that I forgot I even told him! Neither of us is very talkative, but when we do talk he really gets what I'm saying and we can discuss events and ideas and stuff like that.
It seems like he stares at me a lot, but that might just be something he does normally. There's also a lot of "accidental" body contact.
He can definitely be friendly with other girls on the floor, but as I can't really hear what they're talking about or see any body language I don't have anything to go on there. There was gossip last semester about him and another girl, but nothing ever came of that. He seems like the opposite of a womanizer tbqh
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I'm really bad at reading signals that mean that he likes me. I'd ask him out myself but I'm deathly afraid of rejection (and have an anxiety disorder) and would like to be really sure that he's interested before I put myself out there like that.
**I'm adding a poll just for fun because why not?