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1. Do you have a complete disinterest in sex/no libido, some libido?

2. Are you dating someone right now? If so, are they asexual also?

3. If you said you're dating someone who isn't an asexual, how do you handle that? Are you in an open relationship? Do you fear the day they eventually can't contain their desire for sex any longer?

4. If you're in a relationship, do you feel that you love the person? Like, really love them? What does it feel like?

5. If you're in a relationship, what do you guys do together? How often are you two with each other? (Or more, if you're in an open relationship. It doesn't matter.)

6. How did you meet the person you are dating? Online? Real life?

7. If you're dating a sexual person, do they know you're asexual? If they do, when did you tell them? How did they take it? Has anyone ever broken up with you after you told them?

Answers

• I have a libido so small you'd need a microscope to find it; I'm personally repulsed by the thought of me as a sexual object/subject.

• Er this one is complicated. I'm in a strange not-quite-romantic-but-also-not-quite-just-platonic relationship with someone. I like to describe it as a relationship where we skipped the whole romance and getting married bit and just jumped straight to happy domesticity.

• Other person's not ace, I am totally okay with them doing whatever with their life.

• Of course I do. It feels like what I suppose everyone else feels? I can't exactly tell, seeing as I've never been another person before and therefore can't compare.

• I cook for her. She does the cleaning, sometimes. We chat, a lot, and it's wonderful.

• Offline.

• Seeing as I have a shirt that says "Asexuals: f***ing Up Your Gaydar Like A Boss", and like to wear it... I certainly hope they know

* Talk, cook, eat, play video games, watch movies... We're pretty boring. Our schedules don't often line up. We spend somewhere between zero and two days a week together, depending.

Just out of curiosity. I consider myself to be one, but just to be clear, I'm not talking about someone who seems to hopelessly find romance. I'm talking about someone who wants to be romantic and is hopeless about stopping that way of... well, romancing.

The context I'm looking into is a girl/guy who, when in a relationship, will do "unexacting things when least expected" like write a song, take someone somewhere nice yet simple. Hell - go to an open field at night to go star gazing.

What do you think of hopeless romantics? Do you think they'd be too emotional or sensitive? Or does the idea of too much serenading seem intoxicating? This can be applied to both guys and girls.