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/or If you have any that is. :)

I was talking about this with friends about it and some people get frustrated by racial preferences, may feel its racist, or may feel left out. I have friends all over the rainbow so I hear different perspectives on this. Personally, I do consider it racist somewhat, though certainly not always, but then I think most people in this country are racist on a less conscious level. Their conscious opinions and preferences are only manifestations of that racism whether they realize it or not. It's like a part of the world we live in unfortunately. Or fortunately depending on how you feel about it. lol I don't take it personally though, yknow, it is what it is.

I don't see the purpose in getting bothered about it. I'm not even being stereotypical here, but one of my Asian friends feels like Asian guys are at the bottom of the totem pole. He doesn't prefer Asian women though but he likes other women. He feels like there are so many stereotypes working against him and he feels like every move he makes in life is trying to disprove them. Also, standards for masculinity and attractiveness don't equal to the way most Asian guys look so that bothers him. He rants about this a lot actually and when I tried to tell him you shouldn't get upset over this and just accept that people generally prefer what you arent, he said I just can't understand. I had to stop him there because I am a black girl. Of course I understand. Black women are at the bottom of the beauty totem pole. I am the first one to just accept that standards of beauty that men have accepted globally are things many black women can't measure up to. I understand a guy not wanting to date me because I'm black. It's fine. I don't get pissed about it and so I tell him he should just shut up. I would bet money that there is a general consensus that black women and Asian men are the least attractive and least desirable. It's just something that is and you can't change how people feel. You should just be happy with your own life instead of worrying about what most people may think. It isn't hard to find some loving. lol The ugliest people of the most attractive groups find love or sex, so it's not difficult for the more attractive of the least attractive groups (like us :P) to find it as well. I generally have no problem with guys even though I am part of a group seen as unattractive. I'm just happy with my life idk.

Anyway how do you feel about this ladies and gents - racial preferences are they good or bad in dating? do you have any race that you tend to be less/more sexually attracted to? Do other peoples preferences ever annoy you? Be honest no censors up in this bitch. lol

I'm gonna add a poll too. Just because I feel like it. ^__^

Just wondering what most people usually worry in their relationship or just about relationships in general if you aren't in one yet.

Here is a list of stuff and you can put them in order of most important to worry about (you can also add to the list!)

1. cheating

2. secret past (like a child they didn't tell you about)

3. drug secrets

4. they'll just start to get bored of you

5. you'll start to get bored of them

6. they're just using you for sex

7. they have ulterior motives (dating you to p*ss off their cousin who really actually likes you)

ha! Actually my only worries that I use to worry are #1-3, but I'm trying to not worry much anymore because I think worrying is bad in a relationship! Why would I be with him and not trust him fully right? *sigh*

just for fun there is a poll! =)

okay so you had sex one night, that was it. you are not interested in the person anymore, you really don't want to be around them anymore because all it was was sex. the person starts callin you boo and saying they miss u. crazy sh*t basically.

do the poll and then explain how you handled the situation. :)

So this guy and I have been texting on and off for a couple months now. We've known each other for years, barely kept in contact until recently now that I've become single again. We'll spend full days texting back and forth. At first, it was like every two weeks he'd begin a conversation with me. Then it was more often and I would sometimes start it off too. It goes on for a couple days straight sometimes too. The conversation is sometimes quite suggestive. Is this just an innocent thing or something else. He has a girlfriend too which is my concern.

Poll: How would you feel if your SO was having full day texting sessions with a friend of the opposite sex?

My friend and I (both 19) hooked up but didn't have sex this summer. He said that we were going to hang out and be good friends when the year started, but the college year has started and although he has said hi to me in passing, and at parties, we haven't had a real conversation, and we certainly haven't "hung out". I feel used and taken advantage of, and it really hurt me. However, he can be very awkward and so can I, so I don't know how to go about it. What should I do? Also, if you choose something, it would be cool if you could explain your answer.