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We're both 20 and we've been dating for a bit over 8 months. He is a really great guy and I'm sure that he's not cheating, it's just that he doesn't tell anyone that we're together. It's 8 months, not a couple of weeks and he hasn't even changed his relationship status on facebook. Half of his friends don't even know we're dating. He says that "everyone who needs to know already does" and that if someone asks then he will tell them. I guess he is a private person, but it just feels like I'm not good enough so he has to hide the fact that we're together. I want him to be proud that he's with me, I don't know.

Other than this the relationship is going very well I think, we've both said that we love each other, and I really care for him. Overall, is this a bad sign, or is it normal for some guys?

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now. To try and cut this as short as possible, I found him on plenty of fish back in June. Upon confrontation, he got the usual (and red flag) defensive, it wasn't me, that's bs, I don't even care, etc. attitude. Eventually, he admitted it. I have always had all of his passwords. It shows him signed up to ALL of these dating sites from Hot or Not to Country Singles (lol). We got into a huge fight over it because he swears up and down that he is not on any of the sites. I confronted him on Cupid. com, by making my own profile (yeah, went crazy girl status with that one), and saying "Gee, nice to see you on here!" to him. So, when he called that night, he acted normal, I brought it up, huge fight incurred. "This is ridiculous. I'm tired of you always accusing me. I feel like you make stuff up just to have a reason to fight, etc." He knows, or should know, how much I love/care about him. Keep in mind, he says he cares about me, but has not said he loves me. I said it to him in a drunken confession. Sometimes I feel ignored by him. But, really, I just don't know what to think. He'll go through these things where he just gets distant. So I give him space, then he gets mad and asks what I've been doing, why I haven't called, why IM being distant, etc. THEN (and I swear the VERY NEXT DAY) he tells me that I'm just a "needy girl." Uh?
I mean, literally, confusion has hit me like a ton of bricks. He treats me really good at times, but he will say things that make me feel like I'm worthless. I know "love is blind", so, from anyone's opinion, is this normal?
Also FYI, I only looked into what HE was doing months ago because he kept accusing ME of things all of the time. Sometimes he's really there, other times he's aloof and just kind of mean? He throws things in my face A LOT, which now I have started doing as well. I just don't know. Is there a chance? Or am I being stupid for even considering it?

So I have a questions for both the guys and ladies.

My boyfriend of 6 years is in a signed band and touring the country off and on throughout the year. Him and his band have given up so much for this and I completely support them 100%.

There are pictures all over the internet/facebook of him at the venues with his arms around girls. I don't care at all about it, I trust him, we have history together, and I know this is literally his job and future. He has to keep the fans happy, so who cares if he gets pictures with them or parties with them? All of the band have pictures with various girls and guys, so it's not just him.

It hasn't and still doesn't bother me at all, but my girl friends think I should be throwing a fit at him about this and that he's cheating. However, I think a majority of girls in relationship are WAY to suffocating and distrusting and somehow expect their man to only see them and only them, which it ludicrous; esp when there are beautiful women all over this damn planet haha.

So my question for you all is, what do you think? If your "other half" had pictures all over the internet with other people because that was part of their job, would you get pissed? I guess even if it wasn't their job, would you be pissed? Either way I'm going to continue not caring about it, but it just got me curious!