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My friend and I just started a fling of some kind. I guess it's a friends with benefits thing but we care about each other a lot. We're both going to different colleges in the fall so we don't want to be in a relationship because then we'd either have to breakup or do the ldr thing and we don't like either option.

He just recently told me he's liked me for years but never thought I'd be interested so he never said until now. I'm pissed because he wasted all that time. Oh well, we're finally connecting.

After we'd kissed a couple of times he confessed to the crush and said he cared for me greatly. Now, everytime we do anything sexual, he says I love you over and over to me. I say it back but I'm afraid I'm going to get hurt if we keep this up.

We're definitely not a couple. We want to keep things on the dl at school because we have the same friend circle and they love to be nosy. So we just act platonic there. I thought that would be weird and awkward but it's not at all. Then, in private, we sex each other up and he says I love you some more.

i keep asking him what we're doing or calling this. He says we're friends. I've told him I'm scared of getting too attached, especially now that I took his V card yesterday. It was amazing and now that I know how great it is, I want him even more.

I would love to be his gf but the timing sucks, so I guess we'll just stay friends. So why all the I love you's?
Is that just the sex talking? He usually says it while we're kissing. I know he cares for me and I am really into him, but I don't want to fall in love and be devastated in September. But what if he really does love me? It might be dumb to not see where this goes.

So I have an ex friends with benefits . We were really close before we started hooking up, we hung out almost every weekend for a few months. He claimed I was getting too attached, but I had just ended a four year relationship with another guy previous to hooking up with this guy. Granted I wasn't in a great place to be seeing anyone and wasn't really myself, but he ended it. When I would see him, he would act like nothing had happened even though we ended things on bad terms. Right after he ended it, he started publicly dating this girl with the same first and middle name as me, as if him seeing another girl didn't piss me off enough. It made me feel insecure because he never wanted to be public with me and said he wasn't looking for a relationship but he jumped into one after ending things. When we went to college, he didn't text me but religiously checked my snapchat stories and liked my Instagram posts. He snap chatted me a few random times during the year but I didn't respond. Right before Christmas break he texted me asking to hang out and saying that he missed me. I didn't know if he was still together with his ex at the time but he confirmed that they weren't. He didn't even use her name, he just called her "my ex". As I was naturally curious, i took him up on his offer but also brought one of my best friends with me who was also close with him. I get in the car and within seconds he's talking about his sex stories from school! But then he went to say that I should go and visit him at college! I didn't hear anything from him after that because he had a short break but recently he sent me a snapchat of him and another girl! I know he is a jerk and I would never hook up with him again but his behavior is annoying and I don't know what his deal is! Is he interested in being friends with benefits again, does he want to be friends or is he trying to make me jealous? Thanks for reading! :)