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As a 25 year old man, it becomes frustrating to me when I meet women with kids.

At age 28 or older, I would start to expect to see women with kids. That's totally understandable. However... what I don't understand is how there's so many single moms out there, between the ages of 19-25, who already have 1, 2 or three kids. I just don't understand the rush to have kids, nor do I understand why these single parents get mad when people don't want to date them. It was your choice to have a kid, and you made the decision to impact your life/dating life by doing so.

My mom had her first kid at age 16 with one guy (he is now a low level internet preacher)

My mom had her 2nd kid age age 19 with another guy (He has various jobs and has had some mental issues in the past).

When my mom met my dad in her late 20s, they got married and my dad was stuck with 2 kids that weren't even his. My dad slowly began to dislike my moms kids, becauase he said they were very disrespectful. As such, my mom's kids and my dad never really saw eye to eye and he spent a lot of his time having to take care of them and then he kicked them out when they turned 18.

And now... 20 years later, my older brother (my moms kid) has moved back in with my parents and temporarily my dad is working overtime to help him out and get him back on his feet and it isn't even his kid.

This is why I never want to date a single mom. You spend a good portion of your life paying for someone else's mistake.

That sad things is that a lot of the single moms I meet these days are barely in their mid 20s.