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Me and lets Say Paul were going out for a few months and it was good! but then I went home to visit my family and we barely talked and I came back and my friends told me how he has been cheating on me and I confronted him twice. he denied everything and says the only thing that has happened is when he went to Osaka japan with his friends he danced with a chick and that was last week

now this week he was leaving to go home and the night before he left he came to talk to me and confessed while I was gone he took another chick to lunch and when I got back that first week he took another chick out to lunch and called our friends for a hotel he could take her too...

he said he didn't go through with it tho..

he said he was tempted to do it because he hasn't had sex in a while and he loved it and im waiting for marriage so I won't do anything with him..

he said while we have been together he has not done anything physical with any other female.
should I believe him and forgive him?

I told him even if we did start dating again he would have rules and stuff to get me to trust him again but is it worth it?
im so confused and I don't know what to do

Okay maybe that didn't need such a dramatic title but I need help deciding things.

I am in a relationship. It's very serious. We've talked about marriage and I am aware that he has started saving for a ring.

IF there were going to be a wedding, however, it would be in 2017 at the earliest.

Today an ad popped up on Facebook with wedding dresses. On said ad was the dress I've seen on Say Yes To The Dress and on Kleinfeld's website. I'm absolutely in love with it.

In store the dress is $2,500. On this site (bridalup) it's $117.00.

I jokingly showed it to my mother (whom I am not super close with and so does not know that my boyfriend and I are discussing marriage) and she told me that she'd give me the cash to buy it.

She said that at that price if I change my mind whenever I get married I can sell it and probably make a profit. She said that if I absolutely loved it (which I do) that it probably won't be for sale whenever I get married so I may as well buy it now.

So... I am so tempted to get it so I can have it.

At the same time... that's kind of like putting the cart before the horse. We're not engaged. It'd be like jinxing it a little bit.

I'd keep it in the back of my closet at home in a bag and tell no one. But I mean.., still...

So... she's basically telling me she'll buy this dress that I love, no strings attached.

Do I take her up on this offer?