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I've been seeing an awesome guy for just over a month. We hang out at least once or twice a week, and talk to eachother daily on the little details to the big picture stuff. He's been mentioning things he wants to do together in the future, like events at Halloween, tv shows we should binge together, how he wants me to meet his dog and fam etc.

Yesterday morning I was on tinder and realized I don't want to be seeing anyone else. I deleted the app and I'm ready to have the big ol' DTR talk. But how do people define the relationship now? How do I go abouts turning this from a series of dates / seeing eachother into a real relationship?

Okay. I'm 18 and I've never worked. I got shitty grades in high school because I didn't really care about it. I am not going to college this fall because I don't know what I want to do and don't feel like having my parents waste money on college (it's very expensive). I plan on getting a job. My mom has been up my ass about getting a job since the end of July. I applied to 4 places (Target, local grocery store, spirit Halloween and petsmart). Petsmart wants people with job expierence. The bitch from spirit Halloween never called me back, the lady from target never emailed me back to set up an interview and I never returned the calls from the local grocery store (I didn't know it was their number, I had to google it) and they sent an email saying that the position was no longer being offered to me. My mom is pissed that I never answered the phone for the grocery store. (I hate talking on the phone). I want easy jobs. I don't want to work anywhere fast paced. I am pretty lazy and don't do anything around the house because I don't really want too or if I do it, I do it halfassed. My mom yells at me all the time for it. My mom says I have until August 30th to be hired somewhere and start working or she's kicking me out. She says it's plenty of time, I would've had a whole month. She works and is going back to school this fall to be an RN. She's like there's no reason in the world why I can't have a job and why she should be expected to pay for everything and go to school. She says she doesn't even care if I work part time, I just need to have a job. I have an audition for American idol on September 3rd and my friends parents are driving us down there. I feel like I need the entire month to practice and I don't have time to look for a job and I can look for one if I don't get on Idol. My mom won't allow that to happen. She says I can't just rely on getting on Idol and that solving everything. I need a job before then.