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Ok so I meet this is girl in one of my classes 2 years ago in the fall while in college and we talked a lot. One day she sat next to me and we talked and almost everyday after that she and I either sat next to each other or close to each other (most of the time I got there first and she sat next to me) she also had a boyfriend back then so I didn’t ask her out or anything for that reason. A few times I sent her notes when she missed class and she seemed to appreciate it. She also asked me to help her out in another class with a project. We talked here and there the next semester after and in the summer. So now these past 2 weeks we stsrted talking more about a few things.
We started catching up and i said I had to work and it was great catching up with her and we should get together sometime soon if her boyfriend is cool with it and she said I think we could plan something and she didn’t have a boyfriend anymore and she said have fun st work.
I then thought for some stupid reason to ask her if she could go to a movie next Friday. She said unfortunately I have to work next Friday. I then got her number and we started txting and she is slow to respond, but she also works 3 jobs. A full time job, and part time job a few nights a week at a country club and on the weekends she does work for the Army. Then I decided when I was slightly drunk to text her this... I hope work is going well, I know you said you’re busy next Friday, but when would you be free this week to see a movie. If not maybe we could grab lunch sometime this week?
She hasn’t responded yet, but she also hasn’t deleted me off Facebook or Instagram... a few other small things she does is use a lot of exclamation points, haha and lol. A few emoticons here and there, basically what I’m asking is should I still try for her and how can I not fuck up Anymore and do I tell her anything else and not sound desperate Like I’m just lost I feel like something is there between us, but who knows

I started dating this absolutely amazing girl in 2013. By spring 2014 we were exclusive with each other. We broke up at the end of summer because she was Mormon and I wasn't. Plus her parents didn't like me for that reason alone.
In November 2015 I reached out to her after a dream of her, and after telling me her frustrations about our break up, she said she didn't want me in her life. A few months later, she reached out to me and after a few weeks of talking again, she revealed she decided to go on a mission, and I confessed my love for her. She and I got into a relationship again and even discussed marriage but she said she would accept for real when she returned. She left in December 2016.
Because of her departure and the mission, she broke things off and kept trying to convert me. My Mormon friend said that she's just on a religious high, and things may change when she comes home.
She comes home in less than a month, and I sent her a letter in the mail to her parents house, which they likely destroyed, but a digital copy to the missionary Facebook account she has as well has her normal one.
I later had the idea to send a copy of the letter to her aunt who lives near me, and who also was one of the few to support our relationship. I never received the letter back, so I took that as a good sign.
But 18 months came and went, and that was supposed to be mid June she come home. I was heartbroken, and I thought I'd hear something.
I just kind of accepted it and tried to date other people, but last night I had this vivid dream of us reuniting, and I couldn't get it out of my head. So I got curious and looked for an update on her Facebook. Her old Facebook was unchanged, and I thought maybe she hadn't come home yet. I then found her missionary account and found she posted on the 26th of June she was going home.
My friend suggested texting her phone asking if she's home, and if she could call me when she does. (Her little brother had her phone while she was gone)

Basically, went to a restaurant, she was my server. Asked her how she was doing, she was feeling kinda crappy since the place was understaffed that night. So later on I gave her a 20$ tip to brighten her night! She smiled and was really happy about that! I drank a bit with my friends and stuff. Leaving, she was doing the slow walk knowing I was right there, we talked a little, and I didn't even think about getting her number 😅 which my friend later tells me she was definitley waiting for me to ask her out or something. So I was a bit sad cause I found her attractive! Now later on Facebook recommends her as a friend! Do you think she'd be turned off by me messaging her there? Or should I go back and hope to get her again in person? I'm not too experienced with asking girls out, so I need some help! If you need more info let me know.