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I got into a huge fight with my boyfriend a few months ago over one of his female coworkers he seemed to be getting a little too close to. He swore she was just a friend and that there was nothing inappropriate between the two despite her wanting too know if he was dating anyone.

He gave me his facebook password recently after acknowledging he has a problem when it comes to interacting with other girls so we could make things transparent and talk about how to fix things. Low and behold I see a message from his friend asking if he knew the female coworker and he was all "Yeah, she`s trying to get me in trouble with my girl x)" "dat assssssssssssssssssss, she`s cool as hell though". This was months before I confronted him but despite knowing her intent he still interacted with her until I told him to stop.

I found several messages over the years during our relationship about him making comments like these about other girls and about how he`d "hit it" if he was single. Some of them were really vulgar and there was proof that he`d been flirting around and entertaining whatever attention came his way but he`s never physically cheated as far as I know. I want to rebuild with him but finding out those things is making me wonder if it`s even a good idea at all.

At the time we met I had just got rid of a cheater and he took care of me after admitting he just got out of a relationship with a girl he regretted cheating on so he knew how fragile things were. Knowing about his past, I knew he was a risk but just asked him to be completely honest about everything so that I could at least respect him for that and decide if the relationship should be more flexible/open for us both to explore. I`m not mad about the girls, I`m mad that he said he wanted to be exclusive, acted single then continued to lie when I asked him about certain things I felt were going on despite me giving him several chances to be truthful for years.

Should I just leave him alone?